hello, im a 14 year old girl and dont really know who else to ask this question so i thought id ask people online and hopefully find out that im not alone. so i have a boyfriend and we have been daing a while, and i know that im only 14 and shouldnt be worried about doing things sexually yet, but i really want to. i am so comfortable with the guy im dating and wouldnt mind starting our sexuallity experience together soon. but my problem is i can never ever put tampons in or let alone finger myself because i CANT find my vagina hole and there seems to be a big fat layer of skin blocking it!! its probbaly the size of a pea and i wonder if i have an importerate hymen (not sure if i spelt that right) and im unsure if its even a hymen! because hymens are supposed to just be small and one layer of skin, right? im not too sure. i have read articles on articles on articles and still havent found any real good advice or help. im just scared that when he goes to finger me or anything like that , that he wont find my hole. PLEAAASSSEEE help me !! thanks guys
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Hi there. It is normal that you are questioning your body while you are a teen girl. But you need to take it easy and slowly. Using tampons is really easy and you will learn more about this when you are older. I don't think that you should use tampons now, maybe you should wait a little bit. Maybe you are in constant fear that you are going to feel some pain and that is why you are not able to put tampon or satisfy yourself. That is all normal and knowledge about tampons will come with your age. Don't hurry, you don't need to rush yourself.
Take care.
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