Hi. 15 year old male. I have trouble getting hard without touching myself. Is this normal? Oh and i cant ejaculate without using my hand to masturbate, i cant hump and cum and i really want to ): please help
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Patrikk,
Everyone is different and it is normal. Since you can get hard we can rule out a physical problem. Do you ever wake up with an erection?
We can also rule out a problem with ejaculating. Not everyone responds the same way. You've probably trained yourself to ejaculating by using your hand.
When "humping" (a pillow or something) it will likely take a lot longer. You have different stimulation than when you have your hand wrapped around your penis. The end result should be a stronger orgasm but again, it will take longer to reach.
If you mean during intercourse then it could be partly anxiety. Lots of guys have trouble the first few times trying to ejaculate. There is a lot of stress and anxiety about sex, it can keep you from ejaculating, make you go limp, all that. It's NORMAL.
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