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A few months ago i had a friend that deployed and is currently over seas. well he is married and im also friends with his wife. well i found out that his wife has cheated on him multiple times and of course with me being her friend its something that im not suppose to tell her husband. but im friends with her husband as well and i even used to date him at one point and with that being said its something that i should tell him. to be a good friend to her im suppose to act as if i dont know anything and being a good friend to him im suppose to tell him what going on while he is over seas. so as u  can see im stuck and i dont know what to do. some one help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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If I were you I would just be good friends to them in every way but tell this girl that this is wrong and she must decide who she wants to be with. She cannot play both sides. And she must choose. Tell her that she has put you in a very awkward position and that it is very uncomfortable for you.Tell her also that it is a very awful thing to do to someone who is out laying their life on the line for his country and have to come home and

deal with this c**p. She should never have put herself in this spot. She needs to come clean and tell her that being a good friend to her means you have to tell her the way it is.....which is what i just layed out for you. And to be a good friend to him, i wouldnt say anything unless he asks you directly. If he asks, you must be honest. And tell her in advance that that is the way you are doing this. So if he asks, she has put you in the terrible position of being the bearer of bad news. She should know better!
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I would suggest you to choose the right side.. stop your friend (wife) from falling in trouble and your other friend(husband), let him know that something bad is going around.. but first tell the wife that whatever she is doing is wrong, that is your duty as a good friend to stop her from going in wrong direction.. but if she still do not listen.. then your duty is to inform the other friend(husband), because knowing that wrong things are going around still you don't say it and dont try to stop it.. its wrong. that means your are ditching your friend (husband)...
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