Missing a friend. Wondering if theres a way to get her back.

So I have this really good friend who moved away for school. for the first year or so Ive kept in touch and we talked a lot and it was like...I dunno...Like she was never gone at all. Then all the sudden problems started up. We started to talk less and soon after we hardly talked at all. So I thought and thought about it and tried to figure out what I did. I couldn't find out what it was so I'd occasionally ask shyly if there was something wrong or if I did something. No answer. So I was talking to some other friends and they all told me stories that were pretty much the same in the sense that they all believed that she just uses people and they told me their stories about what she did to them. Nah That can't be true I thought but as time went on the things they said started to seem more true. So I did what I thought a friend should do and go talk to her about because even if it were true we were once really good friends and I wasn't going to let something stupid like that ruin it all.

Turns out talking to her didn't work. She got all fiery and started yelling and saying "how can we be friends if you think that way about me" and so we stopped talking all together. This lasted 6 months before the awesome day she said that she was done being mad at me.

So time went on and I soon realized things were the same. We were still defiantly not the close friends we were. I didn't care really, or at least I didn't show it. I went through six months of being sad and feeling awful for making her sad. So I had the "better than not being friends" mindset. Although something started to get to me. This guy (sigh) who constantly bashed (insulted) her for doing what she operantly does, Which would be using people, and for doing it to him. I know this for a fact because I was the one saying he was wrong to his face and getting in big arguments. However she thinks hes her best friend. So I guess it pretty much is jealousy. I never did anything about it though untillllll... um well I was drunk and I yelled at this guy. Then something happened. He said something to me that should have only stayed between me and my friend. Something reall personal. That set me off so I said a lot of things I didn't mean. Like I called her a b***h and such. So then he went and told her and now she hates me again. maybe Im just bad at the whole friend thing. But yeah...It's been one month almost and I think this time its going to be a little longer then 6...Maybe like forever. Just was wondering if theres anything I could do at this point.