Jealousy in relationships!!!!

I believe that jealusy keeps you on edge and also keeps you from being blinded by love. I am very jealous when it comes to other girls looking at or even talking to my boyfriend. It hurts, yes, you feel like you're not enough for them and of course jealousy kicks in, naturally. I think everyone feels jealous sometime in his/her life. Even if they won't admit it. But as I said its ok to feel jealous as long as you don't get obsessive with it. Then things can go wrong...
Hope i helped.

Feeling jealous is part of being. How you react to your feeling is different story. If you truly love her, show her in action. The desire of snooping around is not a love act. You drive her away by doing that. Open communication always help. Again, do not justify her. She's there with you for a reason. She has chosen you from others. So, why can't you appreciate that. Focus on that thought. The rest, really didn't matter. I called that love.

djjoemoney wrote:

Paranoid123 wrote:

jealousy is a normal thing to have in a relationship. yet it doesn't mean its a good thing. its very true sumtimes jealousy can end a very good relationship many couples argue abt it and blah cums to a break up. you go through her stuff because you care about her. Its nice that you care but if she hasn't done anything wrong to you or her past relationship you should try to trust her more. its normal but its better if u ask her in person so if she lie yet u know she's not worth your time

i disagree. jealousy from a guy is when hes into playing games and acting immature. why would you wanna look at your girls phone unless you think shes doing u dont like. and why would you think? thoughts like came from your mind unless you been shown otherwise. since it came from your mind tthats makes you insecure cuz u know its something u do or would do. that is far from normal in a relationship
jealousy is not a normal thing in a relationship thats "normal". to me that means 2 people with true love for each other and 100% trust issues no matter whats going on. when both people dont feel threatend if they wanna go out or go somewhere without the other having to be everywhere because they both trust one another. if your in a "normal" relationship feelings like jealousy is one thing thats not "normal" you dont go thru someones sh*t if because you care about them thats the stupidest thing i heard and its disrespectfull u dont disrespect people you care about in any type of way. wouldnt you feel disrespected if someone went thru your sh*t, especially someone you thought would never be doing that without you knowing? you need to have respect for peoples privacy it isnt normal if you dont. at the same time when it comes to 2 people who suposed to be together no one would have anything to hide. if you both got phones u dont look at a girls unless your sure u dont have anything in your phone u dont want her to see in that case just ask to see it and theres really no reason too unless something happens to yours. so its about respect and trust thats suposed to be normal not disrepct and jealousy to where you gotta go thru someone elses sh*t u dont ask for first

i did that to my man after i found out that he cheated! well,i went through that phone,he would even tell me who is who,i still didnt trust him! i even thought y did i forgave him! until i realized,ill just leave him alone and if he want others he will go or if he wants me,he will be here without me forcing him onto anything! after all that phone misundrestanding i just said i quit,i wouldnt like if he do that to me!no matter even if i am faitful!

What coping strategies could I use as I am on the receiving end of a very jealous man?