Lost virginity... Want to stay virgin for my marriage, Pls help

May be the guy is worth and she wanna spend her life with him , but truly don't lie to him if u wanna have a true deep and long lasting relation ...

May be the guy had saved him self for one true partner

So true don't lie to the one who will be in ur life for ever and will take all ur responsibility and love

No one likes to hear the truth

You are not virgin anymore, sorry

I'm still a virgin, but the guy am dating presently want us to have sex before he marries me... the problem here is that wat if we do it and he ends up not marring me what do I do and what do I tell me future husband? I'm so confuse n need some advice please

Tell him his weenie is small and that's why you didn't bleed

If he can't wait till after your marriage, then he's not worth the stress. I believe that if he truly loves you he's gonna marry you. And if he knows he'll marry you and have sex with you eventually, then why must he rush it now?

Besides, if he's trying to force you to do this, then he doesn't love you. Because love is patient and love is kind. A person who loves you will consider your wishes too and not just his own.

I hope this reply isn't too late cause your post was a month ago. But remember, you're a queen regardless! Good luck girl x

Well I am 28 old virgin man. Ever since i was a kid i always studied or took advise on matters i did not know or that would risk my future. I always believed that sex can make a woman pregnant and so i knew i will not have sex until i am really ready to love and take care as a responsible man. Its not just a physical aspect... its more about emotional patience, sacrifice, dedication and really respecting each others body. I believe both men and women should be virgin before marriage. if they want sex, then they should get married and have real sex with best intimacy love and dedication..... in your case don't worry.. there are many other men that are ok with non virgin girls, they may have had sex in the past too... its best to live in an equal and honest relationship than faking or lying.

so, i was watching porn. i got really into it and I got super wet. i fingered myself with one finger. ( I am still a virgin ) and for what so ever reason, i decided to finger myself with TWO fingers. it was stupid of me to do that but the next day, my underwear had blood on it and when I went to pee, I wiped my vagina, and the toilet paper was bloody. i have not started my period ever. meaning I've never had my period. so ether it's I broke my hymen or i started my period for the first time. please respond and give me advice or help! anything will help at this point! i tried look at my Hymen in the mirror but I couldn't tell

she cannot be honest with him, he will not accept him and no other will marry her.

Wow

Even though this is an old post, I just had to reply. This is such a sad question for many reasons. I do understand the culture, and the stress associated with this. However, you can't unring the bell, in the sense that once the penis enters the vagina, one is no longer a virgin. No amount of surgery and pep talks are going to change that. And it shouldn't have to. Even if you were to have surgery and trick the man into thinking you are a virgin, you will always know the truth. And when you lie to someone, you can never really have a real connection with that person and you will always feel uncomfortable and unsatisfied, and probably even low self-esteem and mental issues because you know you are not loved for who you really are. Nothing, in my opinion, is worth that. You would be surprised how understanding men can be when you are just honest. They appreciate that and will always trust you in the future, and you will know you are loved and accepted for who you really are. We are human and have desires. Men more than anyone know this. And maybe you loved this other man and hoped you would get married. Just explain the situation to the man and if he cannot marry you based on this fact, then you just saved yourself a huge headache and nightmare in the future. A loving sincere man will appreciate and love you regardless. And even try to reassure you and comfort you. A macho, closed-minded, fanatic type will not accept it. Which is not the type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with anyway. Have more value and worth in yourself, in order to find someone who is worthy of your unique qualities and spirit. Not being a virgin doesn't change the beauty of your character and spirit. It's a shame that certain cultures and religion makes people feel this way.