Ok so ever since i was little id say 7 or 8 i discovered that if i leaned above my penis and under the pubic bone on the edge of a table i would have an orgasm. Not knowing what masterbating was, did that everyday. Now im almost 16 and its the only way i can reach orgasm. Cant do it using my hand. Im getting worried that this is going to f**k up my sex life, what should i do!
thanks =)
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OK, so you've trained yourself to experience sex in a particular manner.
it's possible to learn other methods, or a variety of methods of pleasuring yourself.
You didn't just suddenly become sexual at age 8. You taught yourself that you liked this feeling. And you practiced it.
You can also untrain yourself, or relearn to associate your sexual response to other stimulation.
It's not impossible, but it won't happen overnight. It may take a long time, but you can do it.
(I'm not sure just how leaning on a table ledge stimulates you, but I suspect that this compresses your bladder and THAT can cause sexual arrousal. Many men wake to find they have a hard-on in the morning when their bladder is full and they have to urinate. It's called "morning wood". You may have discovered a variation on that.)
Good luck.
it's possible to learn other methods, or a variety of methods of pleasuring yourself.
You didn't just suddenly become sexual at age 8. You taught yourself that you liked this feeling. And you practiced it.
You can also untrain yourself, or relearn to associate your sexual response to other stimulation.
It's not impossible, but it won't happen overnight. It may take a long time, but you can do it.
(I'm not sure just how leaning on a table ledge stimulates you, but I suspect that this compresses your bladder and THAT can cause sexual arrousal. Many men wake to find they have a hard-on in the morning when their bladder is full and they have to urinate. It's called "morning wood". You may have discovered a variation on that.)
Good luck.
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