This might be a stupid question. But how far is it from the entrance to the vagina to the cervix?
I only ask because I was masterbating a little while ago, with my Vibratior, its 7" long, and pretty thick, I should have bought one smaller...but I wasn't thinking correctly at the time. I'm a Virgin (well never had sex with someone)
I was using the Vibrator, it hurt, this is the first time using something this big, and in that far, I'm assuming yes I broke my hymen, but I also horse back ride, and I work a pretty physically demanding job. So I had assumed I probably broke it before now, but my question.
I'm really tight, its hard pushing the vibrator in, and it gets to a point, I just can't push anymore, about 5-6 inches. Is this because thats as far in as my cervix, because, I'm so tight, should I try one smaller? Or is that as far in as I would be able to go. It does hurt, to a certain point. And it is hard to really masterbate with me being so tight, I can feel it go past something inside and then some give, and then it feels ok.
Anyone understand? Do I just need more practice???? lol
Thanks
-Canadian Girl
I only ask because I was masterbating a little while ago, with my Vibratior, its 7" long, and pretty thick, I should have bought one smaller...but I wasn't thinking correctly at the time. I'm a Virgin (well never had sex with someone)
I was using the Vibrator, it hurt, this is the first time using something this big, and in that far, I'm assuming yes I broke my hymen, but I also horse back ride, and I work a pretty physically demanding job. So I had assumed I probably broke it before now, but my question.
I'm really tight, its hard pushing the vibrator in, and it gets to a point, I just can't push anymore, about 5-6 inches. Is this because thats as far in as my cervix, because, I'm so tight, should I try one smaller? Or is that as far in as I would be able to go. It does hurt, to a certain point. And it is hard to really masterbate with me being so tight, I can feel it go past something inside and then some give, and then it feels ok.
Anyone understand? Do I just need more practice???? lol
Thanks
-Canadian Girl
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well, virginity varies.
See, I think you still are, because you havn't been with a person before.
Most women lose they're hymn because of sports or athletics or something else.
Being a virgin depends on how you yourself feel.
But, don't worry so much.
After four years of no masturbation or penetration technically your a born again virgin since your vagina regains its tightness.
See, I think you still are, because you havn't been with a person before.
Most women lose they're hymn because of sports or athletics or something else.
Being a virgin depends on how you yourself feel.
But, don't worry so much.
After four years of no masturbation or penetration technically your a born again virgin since your vagina regains its tightness.
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I lost my virginity at 13 but never "broke" my hymen per se, it was fragmented in a way that it was easy to stretch without causing bleeding, the only pain was mild bruising. I masturbated a lot before I lost it. It is still visible with a mirror. As for that comment about virginity being dependent on how one "feels" by the other poster, I have to disagree. You lose your virginity through penetrative sex with another person. Period. Also, who wants to refrain from sex or penetration for 4 years? lol I don't know what this is all about, but it isn't true. Vaginal muscle tone is actually helped by sex and masturbation and kegel exercises. This born again virginity stuff in nonsense.
The cervix can be really low for some women. Personally I can't comfortably have sex with anyone who has a penis over 6.5 inches, the whole shaft just wont fit inside and it causes pain. Other women, well, they can be in porn haha. I can feel my cervix with my finger, it is also lower depending on where you are at in your menstrual cycle.
As for tightness, this varies a lot too. I've been told I'm incredibly tight even though I've had a pretty significant amount of penetration from sex or vibrators lol. Guy friends have told me that it can vary dramatically, and doesn't even have much to with the persons size or frame. I do have a small frame though, I'm only 5'3 and 110lbs.
You might be more comfortable with a smaller vibrator, but you might just need to relax more and use more lube too. Don't try to force it or get used to it, if it doesn't feel enjoyable at all now, it probably wont after using it more. Try using it externally on your clitoris and surrounding area. That usually feels better anyway, especially if it is one of those hard plastic vibrators. I used to use 2, a bigger one externally (also bought without too much consideration) and a smaller one internally haha.
I wouldn't worry about anything either way, just keep having fun lol.
The cervix can be really low for some women. Personally I can't comfortably have sex with anyone who has a penis over 6.5 inches, the whole shaft just wont fit inside and it causes pain. Other women, well, they can be in porn haha. I can feel my cervix with my finger, it is also lower depending on where you are at in your menstrual cycle.
As for tightness, this varies a lot too. I've been told I'm incredibly tight even though I've had a pretty significant amount of penetration from sex or vibrators lol. Guy friends have told me that it can vary dramatically, and doesn't even have much to with the persons size or frame. I do have a small frame though, I'm only 5'3 and 110lbs.
You might be more comfortable with a smaller vibrator, but you might just need to relax more and use more lube too. Don't try to force it or get used to it, if it doesn't feel enjoyable at all now, it probably wont after using it more. Try using it externally on your clitoris and surrounding area. That usually feels better anyway, especially if it is one of those hard plastic vibrators. I used to use 2, a bigger one externally (also bought without too much consideration) and a smaller one internally haha.
I wouldn't worry about anything either way, just keep having fun lol.
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Thank You Everyone for the replies...I will stop worrying! lol
I do have a worrying issue I think! But I will stop.
Thank you,
-Canadian Girl
I do have a worrying issue I think! But I will stop.
Thank you,
-Canadian Girl
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