i'm a 16 yo girl and i masterbate frequently. but when i do it, i just rub my clit and that gives me the best feeling. if i use my fingers and push them inside me, i don't really no wat im looking/feeling for, meanin this dusnt feel good, and doesnt help me reach orgasm. can someone help? preferably an older woman with experience.. lol.
See the 'Masturbation FAQ' for help with this question. You might find the answer there.
MASTURBATION FAQ
See the 'Masturbation FAQ' for help with this question. You might find the answer there.
MASTURBATION FAQ
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I think what you are refering to, when you say you put your fingers inside, is the G-spot. The G-spot is an area that is usually high up in the vagina. Some experts even say it doesnt exist. I say each woman is different.
I personally experience a sensation that drives me up a wall (in a positive way of course) when that area is stimulated. But I have found it difficult to be reached by some of my partners in the past. I can reach it myself but not with my own fingers. The vagina is about 6 inches long until it reaches the cervix and I have found that my G-spot is about that far up and kinda over to one side. Assistance is necessary FOR ME.
Again every woman is different so if you are not experiencing the wonder that is the G-spot then just save that for a time with a partner or you may feel it necessary to explore more on your own with a device. At 16 I am NOT suggesting that you have intercourse and I dont want to know if you have already or not. Self stimulation is natural, healthy, common and SAFE (for the most part).
Self penetration may be an option also but be careful. I have read some weird and horrifying (to me) stories of objects breaking, getting lost, etc. The best thing to do would be to use a vibrator or dildo (i wish i knew the better word for that) and if youre determined you can find them anywhere on the internet. It would be the safest alternative.
The clitoris is the main avenue for orgasm for most women. Simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation is optimal for most women. But every woman is different. I am all for masturbation. Its safe in so many ways. You dont get pregnant or get STDs and theres no man there to screw it up or give directions to. You know just how you like it. Dont get me wrong, I enjoy sex but for a 16 year old? MASTURBATE to your hearts content!
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I personally experience a sensation that drives me up a wall (in a positive way of course) when that area is stimulated. But I have found it difficult to be reached by some of my partners in the past. I can reach it myself but not with my own fingers. The vagina is about 6 inches long until it reaches the cervix and I have found that my G-spot is about that far up and kinda over to one side. Assistance is necessary FOR ME.
Again every woman is different so if you are not experiencing the wonder that is the G-spot then just save that for a time with a partner or you may feel it necessary to explore more on your own with a device. At 16 I am NOT suggesting that you have intercourse and I dont want to know if you have already or not. Self stimulation is natural, healthy, common and SAFE (for the most part).
Self penetration may be an option also but be careful. I have read some weird and horrifying (to me) stories of objects breaking, getting lost, etc. The best thing to do would be to use a vibrator or dildo (i wish i knew the better word for that) and if youre determined you can find them anywhere on the internet. It would be the safest alternative.
The clitoris is the main avenue for orgasm for most women. Simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation is optimal for most women. But every woman is different. I am all for masturbation. Its safe in so many ways. You dont get pregnant or get STDs and theres no man there to screw it up or give directions to. You know just how you like it. Dont get me wrong, I enjoy sex but for a 16 year old? MASTURBATE to your hearts content!
DistinctivelyMe...?
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Thanks :} thats helped a little. oh btw yea im still a virgin and dont intend on losing my virginity til i find the right person.
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