There have been many instances that I want to have sex and my boyfriend can't. If he is too physically tired or had a stressful day at work, he won't be able to perform, and when he tries he can't keep it hard. He ends up feeling "inadequate" and I try to understand. He says his body just isn't built that way and sometimes his head gets in the way. He's also can't have sex days in a row. It's frustrating because we're trying to have a baby and a part of me thinks it hasn't happened yet because of his inability to perform like he should. How can I help him????
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your a wman so act in a sexy and intamate way towards him. tell him to talk about what is on his mind,, but what you should think about is moving your body in a way that makes it look like you are slow dancing.. twist your body and if he asks what you are doing then tell him your listening to him and also getting in the mood for sex...
for him to see you feel good about yourself and touching your body all over it will turn him on.. because the last thing he needs is to stress out over his own ability to perform..
it really doesn't matter what he tells you. girls can switch off easily and you need to work on yur own feelings.. trust me things will flow a lot smoother for both of you.
just remember that boys are made different to girls and that way we think differently and of course.. i think each of you want to please each other.
it might just take some time.
best luck.
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