My boyfriend that I love has a small penis.

Hey :). I was once in your exact position. Have you ever thought of maybe having the short sex, waiting half an hour then pulling out a vibrator that can please you while he watches and gets aroused? He would probably last longer on the second time and you'd then be getting something out of it.

I think your best bet is to make him confident with his small penis so that he allows touching and oral, which is very pleasurable for you, rather than getting him to try penis enlargment which is expensive, painful and sometimes humiliating because the penis does not get much bigger. Extra foreplay that pleases you, having sex numerous times in a row and giving him a bit of an ego boost would really make things a lot better. I personally involved a vibrator and kept the sex going for a while by letting him orgasm a number of times with little spaces in between.

It's not a perfect solution but it would at least allow you to have a chance of enjoying yourself somewhat without putting him through an ordeal, which would probably just give him a worse complex.

Hope this helped!

I would certainly think hard about marrying someone who won't let you see or touch him. That would surely cause some difficult problems in a marriage.

Now for the early ejaculation problem. That's quite common if he's intact. The only way to cure that is a lot of penis handling to get it used to it.

I had that problem when I first got married and what I did was to spend a lot of time working on her orally so that she had her orgasm before I went inside. I loved doing that so much that sometimes I actually came while I was licking her so I had to wait for it to get hard again before I could finish inside her. My wife never responded much to internal stimulation and many girls don't get much out of penetration. Have you had other experiences where you DID get a lot of pleasure from intercourse? Is it just with him that you don't? All these things can be worked out but you have to work together to do it.

I think you need to work on getting him to allow you to do to him what you want and getting him to do to you what you want done. Otherwise it's not going to be much fun being married.

I never had a problem with letting a girl touch and handle me. I love a girls touch.

well i  have a very small penis as well and ontop of it thin , so i did the same thing for a while never let my girlfriend see it BUT  i always knew my penis wasent a pleaser sort of speak soooo what i do before intercorse i give my girlfriend oral maybe make her orgasm once or twice once its sensitive im good to go  then its pretty much awesome for her after that but the lasting long part that never happens to me ,what i recomend is maybe some kind of desensitizer for his penis i do bealive  they sell those in adult stores. oh and we always use toys such as dildos that are real life skin type nothing wrong with that , its just some men cant get over that pride hump :)

ps marco ;)

I have a small penis.  We make it part of our sex play.  Ultimatly my wife will say something like "that little thing is too small for me. Go get my rubber boyfriend."  Then I use this large dildo that she picked out for herself.  She cums very stronly on it.  It's a great turn on for me to use it on her.  She then does one of many things with me.  If she lets me in her and she lets me know that she can't feel me.  She really can't.  Then she may give me a ha****b or spread her legs and let me masturbate on her.  There are a lot of variations.  But we have never hid the fact that I am very small.  It leads to all kinds of great foreplay and sex.   She is very loving with all of this.  The other night she said that I was so small that I would probaboy feel better wearing panties.  She put a pair on me.  She was really wet and that dildo went in really easily.  She had a great orgasm.  Then she masturbated me in the panties.  So it's okay to be small.  She actually loves it and would never cheat.  Just use it to your advantage.   

suck & masturbate him before you have sex....dont make him cum, help him relax a little, then start to suck him again..he can suck / lick your nipples & lick your clit..:) then when you are close he can start to have sex again, get him hard...maybe try him cumming in ur mouth, before he starts to have sex again..