im a 15 and half yr old.... i have been masturbating(hand practice) for past 2.5 yrs and it has gradually attained an increased frequency from 2-3 times in a week(when i started) to about 3-4 times in a day...... I went through all the side effects listen on the web and i discovered that i am affected by most of them........ i also found various ways for the treatment but i saw tht in most cases i have to use some ayurvedic thing or medicines which wont b possible at all..... so i wanted to ask that will time cure this thing if I leave this thing? I still have erections if i run my hand over it and think bout such situations but i have been experiencing things like hair loss, lower back pain, quick ejaculations..... and sometimes laziness and fatiguenss....... is there any type of thing i can do w/o consulting anyone and w/o buying anything.... just with the purely natural and easy things ? pplz reply cuz i want to get outta this problem asap cuz i have realised my serious mistake..... :-( plz help
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If you are uncomfortable with the amount of masturbation that you have been practicing, you can choose to slow down a bit.
If you are tired, or find you are coming quickly, it's because you have learned how to pleasure yourself and now know how to go there fast.
You can also unlearn this behavior too.
You need to learn to divert yourself to other interests, and not to give into an arousal that may or may not lead to ejaculation.
Just cause you get erect is not a sin. Your body is responding to stimuli in the environment and to internal hormones. You will ALWAYS get erections and arousal. It's a good thing. But it doesn't mean that you have to act upon it, no matter how urgent it may feel.
Don't worry, relax. You will grow out of this phaze as well. In the meantime, if you want to occassinoally pleasure yourself, go ahead. Just don't let it run your life. It should be only a part of your development...not the purpose of your life. OKAY?
If you are tired, or find you are coming quickly, it's because you have learned how to pleasure yourself and now know how to go there fast.
You can also unlearn this behavior too.
You need to learn to divert yourself to other interests, and not to give into an arousal that may or may not lead to ejaculation.
Just cause you get erect is not a sin. Your body is responding to stimuli in the environment and to internal hormones. You will ALWAYS get erections and arousal. It's a good thing. But it doesn't mean that you have to act upon it, no matter how urgent it may feel.
Don't worry, relax. You will grow out of this phaze as well. In the meantime, if you want to occassinoally pleasure yourself, go ahead. Just don't let it run your life. It should be only a part of your development...not the purpose of your life. OKAY?
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yeh... i dont feel anything like that but one thing is that i get attracted to the girls very quickly around me...... (even to bout 6-7 years older than me) i also want to find a solution to that problem and by the way i wanted to know if getting aroused by seeing socks and imagining girls in em is very unusual........ and olso .... i read that there will b seminal leakage type of thing a burning senstion after urine along with with sperm cells will also drop in the last few drops....... i do feel it SOMEtimes..... idk since when i read all the bad effects from a mixture of sites idk even if i wanted to i cudnt get an erection for last 1 day cuz i suppose my mind has fixed all those effects i read...... i was dead sure bout leaving it forever but what do u think...... shud i still keep up with it or leave it consdering the time i spent doing this.... and if the first option then what shud b the frequency? cuz i was advised by my elders that this will cause serious issues in my reproductive health..... cuz been doing it for bout 3-4 times daily for past 2.5 yrs(that per day is an avg ofcourse ... earlier i wasnt able to do it tht much time) Im finding this thing helpful and i was wondering whether i cud get an erection or not but after reading this i m going for one last try before i pause it for sometime...
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Breakit,
I would seriously doubt that you could stop masturbating cold turkey, even if you wanted to.
The fact is that the mature body wants release at least every 14 days or so, and if no sexual opportunity happens, then it will produce a "wet dream" or nocturnal emission on it's own.
You seem to have had a pattern of self-pleasuring for the last 2.5 years, but you also say your elders have advised you it will lead to later sex problems in life. Hmmm... very interesting. But I'm not sure that true as stated.
I'm not going to debate what your "elders" are instructing you, but it sounds a bit like anti-sex programming to try to deny nature.
Perhaps they are telling you that you're conditioning yourself into a non-outgoing role... or that you're too concerned with constant self-gratification.
But the fact remains that most all adults DO masturbate. Even those who are married or have regular partners. But if your "elders" want to teach you otherwise, that's their business.
I'm not sure what other website has been preaching bad things come from masturbation. But remember, it doesn't cost much to put up a website and start claiiming things. In the old days, this was called bringing a soap box to the park to start preaching to the crowd. It doesn't cost much, and if people listen to it, well good luck.
The key is not to become obsessed with your own self=pleasuring. You need to continue to develop outside interests and relationships. Sex and masturbation will always be a part of your life, but it shouldn't be the ONLY part in your life.
Also, consider who's publishing those claims on the other websites. What is their agenda? Why do they say those things? And who directed you to there?
Good luck on whatever path you choose to try. Just don't be too hard on yourself if you backslide. We all do.
I would seriously doubt that you could stop masturbating cold turkey, even if you wanted to.
The fact is that the mature body wants release at least every 14 days or so, and if no sexual opportunity happens, then it will produce a "wet dream" or nocturnal emission on it's own.
You seem to have had a pattern of self-pleasuring for the last 2.5 years, but you also say your elders have advised you it will lead to later sex problems in life. Hmmm... very interesting. But I'm not sure that true as stated.
I'm not going to debate what your "elders" are instructing you, but it sounds a bit like anti-sex programming to try to deny nature.
Perhaps they are telling you that you're conditioning yourself into a non-outgoing role... or that you're too concerned with constant self-gratification.
But the fact remains that most all adults DO masturbate. Even those who are married or have regular partners. But if your "elders" want to teach you otherwise, that's their business.
I'm not sure what other website has been preaching bad things come from masturbation. But remember, it doesn't cost much to put up a website and start claiiming things. In the old days, this was called bringing a soap box to the park to start preaching to the crowd. It doesn't cost much, and if people listen to it, well good luck.
The key is not to become obsessed with your own self=pleasuring. You need to continue to develop outside interests and relationships. Sex and masturbation will always be a part of your life, but it shouldn't be the ONLY part in your life.
Also, consider who's publishing those claims on the other websites. What is their agenda? Why do they say those things? And who directed you to there?
Good luck on whatever path you choose to try. Just don't be too hard on yourself if you backslide. We all do.
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