no period for three months but not pregnant, then onset of h

Ok, so i'm 14 . I began my first period when i was either 11 or 12 .
& a in July of this year, i lost my virginty, Sadly enough.
I think i remember having my period a week right after, but since i haven't had it has already been a lil over 3 months.
I'm freaking out and my mother of course didn't expect for me to lose it already.. but she has realized me not starting , and i don't want it to get to the point of her finding out..
I AM a vegetarian but i have been for over 1 yr and 3 months. ( wondering if that could be a reason )
but other than that, i don't eat very much, because i am rarely hungry and if i am, i don't have to eat much to get full.
For the past month i took some Dieting pills.. stupid i know. and i've stopped.
Help , if you can.

Missing periods for 3 months is not considered normal. Having a period once a month is normal. If you have not had a period for months on end and are getting worried, bite the bullet and call your GYN. I'm not understanding why some of these girls are not wanting to see a GYN. Whether you are sexually active or not, if you are missing periods something is wrong.

We, women, are supposed to have periods once a month. Most women do not know that if we do not have periods we can develop Cancer. :cry:

I have never been regular with my cycles. I started my first period when I was 11 and I am now 21. When I was 16 I was put on birth control, DepoProvara, and it messed me up bad. I did not have a period for 7 months then I started having one every 14 days. Since then I have had 6 more birth controls. In 2009 I got pregnant on OrthoTri Cyclen. I lost the baby due to complications because of my PCOS. :(

I saw someone post saying that birth control helps even out your hormones. That is true, to an extent. Most birth controls will not give you a period, which is horrible and I still have a hard time understanding why GYNs will give it to people, knowing that if we do not have periods we can get cancer. It's shocking really.

I have PCOS, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, meaning that I have cysts in my ovaries making it nearly impossibly to ovulate. With that said, that is the cause of my missed, or virtually no periods. In order to have a period you must first ovulate, just so you girls know. Perhaps some of you have this, but do not know it. You should get tested and get an ultrasound from your GYN.

This is a great site for those of us with PCOS: ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed :D

My point is: SEE YOUR GYN. Get over the fact that it will go on your Medical record, who cares? It's not like it's a Felony and will prevent you from ever doing anything again.

As long as you know that there is no possibly way for you to be pregnant, there is something seriously wrong for you to not be having a period. If you are pregnant, see a GYN. :idea:

Also, for the girl who posted about not have a period for 7-8 months after her first cycle and the GYN saying she would be worried after 9 months, FIND A NEW GYN.



Hope all of you take time to read this. :D

Hiya,

I had unprotected sex once with my husband begin sept 2010... i then had a one day period on the 25 sept....then no periods october, november and i still havnt come on and its the 1st december. I took preg tests october and all neg & then the doctor took one and was neg... i have the doctors this friday to see..? any ideas?

thank you

Okay, so you haven't had a period in 3 months (that's including the one day bleed). I recently experienced this same thing (btw I am the poster before you :-D ) and I finally started a couple of weeks ago and it lasted for 6 days, which is abnormally long for me, though, admittedly, I had a 30 day period at one point.

If all of the pregnancy tests are negative, including the doctors, then you should ask your GYN to have you tested for PCOS. Also, if you don't start before Friday then you should ask about having an ultrasound to check for blocking in your tubes. I am not saying that you have a tubal pregnancy, because if it was a tubal pregnancy then your pregnancy test results would be Positive. I'm saying this from experience because I have had a tubal pregnancy.

I'm thinking, though I am no doctor or nurse, that you probably have PCOS, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and if that's the case, then that would explain why you haven't had a period. If not, then it might be a blockage.

Were you taking any form of birth control at all? Birth controls can make your periods disappear, which is horrible.

Sometimes not having a period can be because of stress, a different diet, a different exercise plan, etc. Women's bodies are effected a lot more by everyday life rather than if you were a man. Lol

Just ask your GYN to check for PCOS (they'll know what it is) and then ask to have an ultrasound.

Keep me posted on what happens.

Hi im kinda worried my period is not working good. Like for examble my period dosent happeen until 3 months and when i have my period its really heavy and the problem im only 13 years old im not pregnet thats for sure sure. im just worried thats somethinng is wrong with me cause its not just my period im having headches crams.Crams for me they hurt but thtas only in the mornings thats it. I havent gone to the doctor my mom dosent know about my period im the only one that knows. :$

hey folks. in a month i'll be 31 and the last period i had was jan. 2011. i know for a fact that even though my boyfriend and i are sexually active i absolutely can not be pregnant because he had a vasectomy 3 years ago. it just concerns me that i haven't had a period even though i've been known to be very irregular ever since i started having my period at the age of 12.  with the lack of a period i've also become very bloated and distended in the belly area. what do y'all think could be the issue?

hi my name is carmen im 20 years old n i have a problem i havent had my period in 3 months i got out of the deop on janu..of 2011 n i havent had it sice then i be cramping n m head be hurting some time ma boobs be hurting to n sometime i feel tired but i knw im bot pregnat cuz i want to the hospital n got a pregnacie text n it came out neg.. i dont know what it could be wrong im worried n scared can some one helpp me please:'(  

i have the same problem, i haven't come on since march maybe april not too sure but im really worried as i've done three pregnancy tests and all are negative. im really worried that something is wrong and dont really want to go to the doctors, anyone got any advice or explanations?

Hi, I'm 16 and I haven't had a period in 3 months. I'm not sexually active and I really don't know what's going on with my body. I have all the signs of a period but it never comes. So, what should I do?

I have a different problem! january 2010 i had my son and after i had him i was on the depo shot couple months went by and i decided that i didnt want the depo anymore. and i havnt had a period sense april 2011 and i have had numorus pregnancy tests come back neg. Im getting worried because after i had my son i tested positive for HPV.

I'm 13... Been on it for almost three years but it stopped two months ago. I'm worried, because a few of my family members have a disorder that causes them not to ovulate, and thus, they can't have children. It's really grating on me, I'm going to get it checked soon. I still get cramps, and PMS, but no blood comes out. I've been having clear discharge, which I've heard is normal, but that's all. I'm slightly over weight, but not to the extent that it should be effecting my health. 5'7 and 140lb. My mother told me it's because I'm to fat. It makes no sense though, because I know a girl whos 5'4 and 190lb, who cycles regularly. I haven't put on any, or lost any weight in the past few months. I'm also a virgin, if that wasn't clear, so I couldn't be  pregnant. 

Hi I am going 14 an i have not had my period. I am i virgin so there is no way that i can be pregnant. this issue has been occuring since my period has started. i have not been to the doctor and my mother has been saying that she is going to take to me. none of the women in my family have been going through this issue expect for me. But when i start my period it hit like a ton of bricks  it is hard for me to stand or even walk. I not worried just merly concered if maybe i have a something going on that should be cheak out. 

I am 23yrs old and having the same problem I have not had a period for three months either. I wake up sweeting and have had lower abdomanal pains. I have a good balanced diet and that I know of I am not stressed. My questions is could I be pregnant or could something else be going wrong? I am not on birth control and not using any protection wanting to become pregnant so just asking questions. My husband and I want nothing more than to have a child.

maybe u are just having a hormone problem i dont think that u should stress urself just go and see a gynea.

i have had my period since august 2011 tll now but the past two months i havent gotten it im kind of scared as to what to do and who to ask for help but im 99.9 percent sure im not pregnant. i have lost a bit of weight and i dont eat as much as i used to so i guess diet? and i have been pretty stressed lately. So can you please help, give me an answer please im scared i need help.....