Before I begin I’d like to give you a little background information so I can get the most accurate answers possible. Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to my concerns as well as offer the best help/advice you possibly can. I really have no idea what’s going on with my body. 

Okay so,

I am 19 years old. I’m about 5’6” and weigh about 110 lbs. I’m sexually active (with my husband) we don’t use protection, though We have no children. I’ve never even been pregnant. I got my first period when I was 11 and for the most part it has always been regular. Generally lasting about 5-6 days with a medium to slightly heavy flow. The only time my period was abnormal was when I was 16 and had to move into my grandparents house for 10 months. Due to the stress, I went at least 8 of the 10 months without a period with the exception of some occasional light spotting. Other than that it has always been regular. I’m not on any kind of birth control or medication. 

Having said that..I’ve been noticing some things going on with me (my body) lately and can’t seem to figure out what any of it means. For starters, my last full period started September 21st. It lasted 6 days (as usual). After that I started experiencing things out of the ordinary. I started getting frequent headaches. These headaches seem to come out of nowhere several times a day and can last anywhere from a few hours to a few days. They seem to be worse if I haven’t eaten, if I’ve been standing a while, If I turn my head or look at something too quickly, or if I bend over to the point where my head is upside  down, even if it’s only for a few seconds. I didn’t have a period all of October. Then Mid to late November I started a light period that lasted 3 days accompanied by some light to mild cramping every now and then. I have yet to receive any form of period since then. I have also been experiencing excessive clear watery discharge. Several times a day I’m startled with the feeling that I peed a little when In reality it’s just a good amount of clear watery discharge. It’s enough to completely wet the entire middle section of my panties. This kind of discharge (especially the amount) is very out of the ordinary for me. Whether I’m laughing, coughing, just standing around or not doing anything at all, it happens frequently.  Iv also have to pee more often than usual in the last month or two. It doesn’t matter if I had anything to drink or not. I have to go at least 15 times a day now. (Normally I would go maybe 5 times a day, sometimes I Would even go a day or two without  having to pee at all). On the topic of bathroom habits, Iv also been back and forth between being constipated and having brief time periods of diarrhea for at least a month now. I’ve been experiencing occasional stomach pains and cramps which can rate from  slight or mild. I’m always hungry (more than normal) especially when I first wake up. Even if I have a huge dinner the night before, more often than not I wake up with mild to severe stomach pains and feeling like I haven’t eaten for days. Most of the time I feel very bloated and am always dealing with fatigue now. I constantly feel drained of my energy. Sometimes I can’t even stand up for long or hold up my own weight without having to sit down or lean against something. Some mornings and occasionally throughout the day I feel really nauseous seemingly at random. Though I hardly ever actually throw up. At first I thought maybe I was finally pregnant but I two 2 pregnancy test  3 weeks after my missed period in October and they were both negative. I have noticed an elevation in hair loss as well. I have always shed a fair amount my entire life, but lately I’ve been losing so much hair that I constantly fear the possibility of bald spots. Whether it’s brushing or washing my hair. Or just running my fingers through it, almost near handfuls of hair fall out so easily and it’s very concerning. I also want to mention that 2 weeks ago I started having vaginal discomfort and urinary pain.  At first I thought it was a uti (I’ve had them before and it’s always the same) but this was slightly different. This lasted about a week , Then my husband noticed a hard solid lump On the lower back wall of my vagina. I assumed it was the cause of my pain and discomfort though I didn’t exactly know what it was, how or why it formed,  or how long it was there before we realized. 2 days later the lump disappeared and the discomfort and urinary pain stopped. I can’t afford a visit to the doctor and I’m desperate for any information anyone might have. If you have any ideas please feel free to share them. I would really appreciate the help. I apologize for how long this post is. I just wanted to give as much information as possible to hopefully get some accurate and helpful answers. Thank you for taking the time to read this and allowing me to use your advice as the last hope I have to figure out what’s wrong with me. God bless you.