Ok I'm a 23 year old female virgin and I have met "the one" and we're taking things slow. We started having oral sex, and I have a question about receiving. When he does it, it feels REALLY good...but I can't seem to orgasm. I can masturbate, and also use vibrators (not dildos) and it brings me to orgasm, but for some reason he can't get me to. Why is this? I usually use vibrators more often than finger stimulation, could my clitoris be use to that and that's the reason? I know that sounds silly, but I'm running out of ideas as to why this is, and would like to know how it can be solved. Thanks.
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Well most woman need clitoral stimulation to orgasm so if he's not doing that while hes down there, then its likely the first problem. Do you find yourself pretty "into it" when hes doing it? If you're focused on anything else than the feelings then that could also be making it hard to orgasm.
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He pays MUCH attention to my clit. It does feel really good, and sometimes if feels like I might be on my way to an orgasm, but it never happends. Even though it does feel really good, I guess I don't focus too much on it because I do find myself thinking of other things. (oops,lol)
So yeah....I think that's my problem....Thanks!
So yeah....I think that's my problem....Thanks!
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I've started using my virbrator more than my hand and now I can't even make myself have an orgasm without a vibrator--so your theory could be true!! My girlfriend can't even make me orgasn anymore--with her mouth or hand. It really upsets her that she can't, too. I'm going to stop using a vibrator and if I want to masterbate, I will use my hand. Maybe you could try this and let me know how it works or I'll do it first and let you know if it worked or not.
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