So I lost my virginity tonight..i think..like he was in..but not all the way because it hurt so bad. I bled a little.. and stuff.. so did i lose my virginity if it wasn't ALL the way in. but also another question I have is how can we make this better. because it hurt sooo bad. i was wet. but i think i scared myself by telling myself how bad it was gonna hurt. and he was really good about the whole thing by letting me to most of the slow pushing and things. we didnt use lube.. but we used lubricated condoms? i wonder if KY jelly would help.. i dont know but that hurt like no pain i ever experienced.. i just wonder if its always gonna be this way or what i can do to help it. like hes very big too so i don't know. Any suggestions?
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First time advice: Slow and steady, little by little.
Many people believe that you do not lose your virginity untill your hymen is broken, however in my own opinion your virginity is lost in penis to vagina contact.
If you have any other questions please feel free to ask
-Fender
Many people believe that you do not lose your virginity untill your hymen is broken, however in my own opinion your virginity is lost in penis to vagina contact.
If you have any other questions please feel free to ask
-Fender
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I did go slow and i'm sure my hymen did break.. because i bled and when i looked down there with a mirror to make sure everything was how it needed to be, it looked like a dent or rip or whole kind of on my hymen. I wonder if it riped or anything. because it was a little rip. i don't know. everyone says the girl should be on top.. but it helped so much more when he was on top.. and like he was so gentle. but i am just so confused about everything. it didn't even go in all the way and i don't want to be too small for him because it hurts. i know we didn't use KY or anything but we did use petroleum jelly but it dries too quickly so i dont know.
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