I am a woman in my twenties, and have found the man I want to marry. In previous relationships (long and short) I have refrained from having intercourse because it has been extremely painful. I am capable of having an orgasm with another person and on my own, dryness or lack of arousal is not the problem. I want to be able to have normal sex with the man I am with now. He is aware of my situation and is supportive. Technically I am still a virgin and I no longer wish to be, but penetration is just too difficult. Are there any recommendations for some kind of numbing medication that I could use for the first time we have sex so it will not be so difficult? We have tried after I have an orgasm and even then it is painful. Most doctors just tell me to "relax and let it happen".... Help please!
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