I'm 20 years old and I have never cummed via masterbating. Thats not a lie either. I periodically have tried it the past couple of years but gave up after like 5 minutes. I guess I dont know how. I dont know how to keep an erection either or make it bigger then 5 1/2 inches which is what I seem to get. I dont even know what its like to ***, ive only experienced wet dreams via waking up. I've obviously never had sex either. Morally I guess i get confused with masterbation... i really want to have sex and Im afraid that when I do I wont know what to do in order to get an erection or how to *** since Ive never done it before.
How is the best way to watch porn?
How do you clear your mind of everything?
How do you keep an erection? How do you get comfortable with your penis size.
How do u learn to not feel bad when watching porn, or think about having sex with girls you know...
all these issues are running through my head... i just dont know what to do about it all.
I love looking at women, and usually try and be a gentlemen about it.. its just im dieing to experience sex or to atleast find out how to climax... am i trying to rush through it? how do u learn to pace urself for porn.. ect
How is the best way to watch porn?
How do you clear your mind of everything?
How do you keep an erection? How do you get comfortable with your penis size.
How do u learn to not feel bad when watching porn, or think about having sex with girls you know...
all these issues are running through my head... i just dont know what to do about it all.
I love looking at women, and usually try and be a gentlemen about it.. its just im dieing to experience sex or to atleast find out how to climax... am i trying to rush through it? how do u learn to pace urself for porn.. ect
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You may be trying too hard.
Most guys can respond to the visual stimulus of porn or pictures.
However, they first experience errections and climaxes in their sleep, which signals the body is developing and ready to engage in sex.
Whether you do or not is a personal choice, and can be heavily influenced by morals, religion, teachings and personal feelings.
Also, the opportunity for sex with another individual may not be present.
Some are taught "no sex without marriage". Others feel free to play the field.
You may be somewhere in between.
Masturbation will not harm you...it won't make you weak... immoral... or a criminal. It also will not determine your sexual preference, though with time, you may learn what you enjoy, and what "gets you off".
Most counselors now recognise that masturbation helps a person be in touch with their body and to learn their reactions. This prepares them for an evenual sexual relationship with another person... but need not require that that happen.
If you want tips on masturbation, there are many books you can read... including "The Joy of Sex", "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson, and "Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Sex" by Dr. David Rubin.
I suggest you look them up. At age 20, you can hold your held up high walking into any bookstore and buying whatever you want. Only a few states have laws that you must be 21. And that should be clear when you look up the "self-help" section.
Good luck.
Most guys can respond to the visual stimulus of porn or pictures.
However, they first experience errections and climaxes in their sleep, which signals the body is developing and ready to engage in sex.
Whether you do or not is a personal choice, and can be heavily influenced by morals, religion, teachings and personal feelings.
Also, the opportunity for sex with another individual may not be present.
Some are taught "no sex without marriage". Others feel free to play the field.
You may be somewhere in between.
Masturbation will not harm you...it won't make you weak... immoral... or a criminal. It also will not determine your sexual preference, though with time, you may learn what you enjoy, and what "gets you off".
Most counselors now recognise that masturbation helps a person be in touch with their body and to learn their reactions. This prepares them for an evenual sexual relationship with another person... but need not require that that happen.
If you want tips on masturbation, there are many books you can read... including "The Joy of Sex", "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson, and "Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Sex" by Dr. David Rubin.
I suggest you look them up. At age 20, you can hold your held up high walking into any bookstore and buying whatever you want. Only a few states have laws that you must be 21. And that should be clear when you look up the "self-help" section.
Good luck.
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