4 weeks ago had dumb moment where I was drunk and didnt realize what I had done till it was too late. As soon as u penetrated her I could feel a burning sensation. Still continued until I was done. Once done and I had burned off some of the alcohol I realized wut u had done. Got back to my room and washed right away (not like that was gonna do anything if she did have something). Still felt burning for a week and then went in to get checked. Found out I had balanitis. Figured since it burned when I started to have sex. Got clotrimozle (excuse my spelling) and used it as perscribed. Still was feeling burning sensation all around my groin and thighs. 1 1/2 weeks later symptoms kinda calmed down but still bothered. Maybe still had lingering since I am not circumcised. Ended up getting nystatin and triamcinolone and used it for about 5 days. On 5th day my right testicle was feeling heacy and in pain and my right leg felt numb. Went into er and nothing they could do. Gave me a urethra swab to see if anything got inside and that was negative. Things looked ok but still have dull pains here and there in the pelvic area. So we are at 4 weeks now and i start to get flu like symptoms. Couldnt eat felt nauseas. Lost 10 lbs in 2 weeks sressing and worrying about this. Tues got urine test and negative for stds and uti. Today went and got blood test and waiting for results. Im getting paraniod. Not sure if its just me imaging these symptoms and making myself feel them or if something is really wrong. Best case is im hoping its nothing or just prostatitis. Wprse case is im screwed and messed up my life because of alcohol. My penis head still feels inflamed but doesn't look it. I try and keep it clean and wash it with just water. Othet things I have tried for relief on penis is olive oil and tea tree oil and some lotion leaving my foreskin pulled back for about 20 mins when I do it. Other symptoms: I have this burning sensation in my left leg between my quad and groin. (Not sure if its the herpes symptom or my shingles having a recurrence because of all the stress I put myself through. I keep getting long bumps on my penis but soft and disappear when I stretch the glan like if its my foreskin putting pressure on my head. I jave pics but not sure where to post. Please can someone help me. Thanks.