preg from pre ejaculatoruy fluid

ahh okay. i think it tore. its what it looks like anyway. i have been nauseous today all day though. could that just be stress? based on everything that i have said and our conversations. do u think i am pregnant and what is the percent chance that i am? ive noticed that ur name is sheperd999 in this site. maybe ur a christian? or ? anyway please pray for me. :)

aah ok. i think it tore, well thats what it seems like anyway. i have been feeling nauseous today all day. could that be because of stress? the only symptom i have now is nausea, tender boobs and tiny amount of bleeding and thats it. based on all the things i have said and our discussions, do u think i am pregnant? and what are percent chance that i could possibly be? i have noticed that ur username is shepherd999 so i guess ur a christian too? please pray for me :)

The chances of you being pregnant are low, but I cannot give a percentage. That doesn't help much anyway, as you could be that 1%! However, I think you have had an infection, and that has caused some of your symptoms, along with stress.

I have tried to ask questions about what you did and what your body parts are like, but you have not been very detailed in your reply, so I can only go on what you have said.

Yes you are right, and I will certainly pray for you - but a name would help!

Why not sign in (it's free) and talk in private.

Take care - God Bless.

i would but i dont want to enter my email address as my mum might see. also i want to be able to help to others who are in the same situation.

what do u mean by 'what you did and what yoour body parts are like' ?

basically what happened was we were under a bridge because i wanted to see what was there and then as it was also quite private one thing led to another. we started kissing and he started doing things like fingering me. im not really sure how the rest goes but as i remember he took out his penis and he was trying to put it in but not literally. he knows that he cant so he did it over my tights. and i think he also did that over my underwear (thong). he asked me to do stuff to him too(bj) so i did and after that he did the same thing again.. also as i said he touched rocks as things kept falling so he had to pick them up from the ground and also i rested against a big brown muddy rock and thats where he had his hand on and he did finger me after that. he also rubbed the length of his penis(not the tip) and i think a WHILE after he fingered again( after he rubbed his penis it was quite sometime after he fingered wouldnt that mean if there was sperm on his hands it would be dead by then?) he never went in but we did dry hump not sure if it was over tights or underwear tho. and again we dont think he ejaculated but he might have pre ejaculated quite a few times (in my mouth and/or while dry humping) this went on for about less than 1 hour. after that was when i noticed the blood on my underwear which could have been my hymen. my discharge has varied since. at first it was clotty and milky white then soon it was clear and stretchy then it was watery then its now milky white again

now, all i feel is nausea all day and yesterday. and my boobs hurt for about a week now, i did not have any bleeding today. however the other day i noticed two brown spots on my underwear. then the next day i stuck my fingers up there to check and i did it quite vigorously as i wanted to damage my uterus because i REALLY dont want to get pregnant and there was blood along with the discharge. later that day i had brown blood on my underwear and today i had none at all. it has been more than 3 weeks after what happened, wouldnt it be too late for implantation bleeding? out of every symptom i only have 3. thats good right?

3 weeks ago, since it happened.. i was paranoid all the time. i have thought of suicide since i am quite young and ive always been paranoid of what other people thik of me and they really dont expect that i would be this kind of person inside. since im usually quiet and im nice to people. all i ever did since then was think about what if i was pregnant. also school has added up to my worries as i am not sure of what i want to become anymore and if i can cope with my studies and also theres family issues. things have been piling up and i really dont know what to do.. i have been crying a lot recently but somehow i still manage to smile everyday infront of people and pretend im okay.. i get my strength from god but idk if hes still listening to me..

Just a quick reply ... it's late here in UK. I'll try and respond more later.

"i dont want to enter my email address as my mum might see" I understand that.

"i want to be able to help to others who are in the same situation." Good ... that is admirable

"what do u mean by 'what you did and what yoour body parts are like' ?" Exactly what you did I think you have now answered, and body parts was to do with clitoral size &c. But I think that might not be neede in the light of what you have now said.

"after he rubbed his penis it was quite sometime after he fingered wouldnt that mean if there was sperm on his hands it would be dead by then?" Depending how long "sometime after" was.

"i did it quite vigorously as i wanted to damage my uterus because i REALLY dont want to get pregnant" I wouldn't recommend that It would probably have little effect, and might cause bruising and lead to cystitis.

"more than 3 weeks after what happened, wouldnt it be too late for implantation bleeding?" Yes, it probably would.

"out of every symptom i only have 3. thats good right?" There are often no symptoms, and they are not unique to pregnancy.Don't worry about them.

"i have thought of suicide" That is not an answer. Anyway you do not know what the situation is yet.

" think about what if i was pregnant." I don't think you are.

"school has added up to my worries as i am not sure of what i want to become anymore and if i can cope with my studies and also theres family issues." Tell me more about those things ... they are probably the main cause of your feelings.

"i get my strength from god but idk if hes still listening to me." Why would He stop listening and caring? God is love. Tell me about your faith. What sort of church do you go to?

Hope this helps a bit, and I'll try and stay in contact.

Further to my previous response, It seems as though his naked penis may not have touched your naked vulva. You said: "we did dry hump not sure if it was over tights or underwear tho", which indicates to me that probably there was little contact if any.

I still think you had an infection from his fingering, and I would be very surprised if you were pregnant. The fact you say "my boobs hurt for about a week now" suggests that your period is not far away. You are irregular, and your stress could make it later than otherwise.

"i am not sure of what i want to become anymore" ... so what did you want to become? Why are you now unsure?

"i am not sure ... if i can cope with my studies" ... what do they entail?

"theres family issues." ... What is happening in your family? All these things you (and I) can pray about.

"i have thought of suicide" ... dismiss them, for then what would you tell God when you meet Him? "i get my strength from god but idk if hes still listening to me." ... The Bible says: "Behold, the LORD's hand is not shortened, That it cannot save; Nor His ear heavy, That it cannot hear." Isaiah 59:1 Keep in touch

i cant see the post that i have posted yesterday. im just wondering if youve seen it? it was quite long

nvm ive seen it now haha. im in uk too and thank you for this. i honestly think that it was gods plan that of all people its you who replied.. i find comfort talking to u and i get less worried. honestly, today i cried again at my r,e lesson becuse i was thinking about what i would say to everyone and the things i might do to myself if i find out tht i am pregnant. i feel like god stopped listening because of all the things i have done. and also i dont think he is answering my prayers although maybe he is its just that i cant see it yet. and also can a person be stressed but not be depressed?and the body could show the signs of stress even if i dont feel stress.. i am not sure if im depressed or stressed cuz im able to laugh and smile and act normal everyday however i deeply think about everything too much, so could this affect my body or well-being too?

If you are in the UK you can get a pregnancy test done confidentially and it's free. Whereabouts in the UK are you? What area?

If you do find you are pregnant, don't do anything to yourself! There is a lot of support available. Care for the Family, for example.

I am glad you are finding comfort talking to me. Keep talking. I'll do my best to help.

"i feel like god stopped listening because of all the things i have done." All the things?What about the prodigal son of Luke 15?

What type of church (denomination/style) do you belong to?

"i dont think he is answering my prayers although maybe he is its just that i cant see it yet." Probably He is answering and you are not perceiving it yet (or perhaps not listening?) Are you reading your Bible? That's how He often speaks to us. Sometimes He allows us to get to the end of our tether so that we rely on Him more. Maybe He wants to use me to talk to you.

"can a person be stressed but not be depressed?" Most certainly; and vice-versa.

"and the body could show the signs of stress even if i dont feel stress" The body may react to stress you don't recognise as such.

"i deeply think about everything too much, so could this affect my body or well-being too?" Yes it can, and thinking deeply is often a good exercise, as long as you allow God's Word to impact on your thinking. Meditation!

Hope this helps a bit more.

i really think i would be depressed if i find out tho.. not only i let my mum down, i left everyone down back home in where i live. i dont think i can take the fact that everyone would be judging me.. im really young too and i cant handle being pregnant at all... no money.. theres school.. i just wouldnt know what else to do..

the only thing that keeps me worried like this is that weeks before, i felt like a pinching kinda thing on the left side of my bladder it didnt really hurt at all it was just a feeling and i dont know if that was implantation. and the brown blood i experienced recently could be the blood from it. since brown means old blood..

this would probably be too much info but my cervical position is low soft and open. and im not really sure what it means as theres so many answers but as i have researched the cervical position for pregnancy is high soft and closed?
so anyway does this mean that i could be getting my period soon?

and what do u mean by what type of church?

"i really think i would be depressed if i find out tho" Yes, I expect you would.

"not only i let my mum down" What about your dad?

"i dont think i can take the fact that everyone would be judging me" Yes, that would be hard, but knowing God's forgiveness helps, and other Christians, while judging what you did to be wrong, should not be judgemental on you.

"im really young too" How young (old) exactly?

"i cant handle being pregnant at all... no money.. theres school.. i just wouldnt know what else to do" Yes, that would be so, but there would be help available. But don't cross your bridges until you get to them. However, you can learn from this and take steps to make sure it doesn't happen again.

"weeks before, i felt like a pinching" Weeks before when? What date? What date did your activity take place?

"i dont know if that was implantation" Probably not, but implantation takes place about 9 days (+/-3) after ovulation and about 5 days (+/-3) before a period would have been expected.

"the brown blood i experienced recently could be the blood from it. since brown means old blood.." Maybe old blood from your previous period.

"this would probably be too much info" No. You can't give too much information if you want informed help.

"my cervical position is low soft and open" There is quite a variation between women, so checking the position of your cervix to determine pregnancy is not a reliable indication of whether (or not) your are pregnant.

"does this mean that i could be getting my period soon?" Not necessarily, but I think it could be.

"what do u mean by what type of church?" I was trying to find out about your church without you giving away exactly where you live. So maybe a Baptist, a Methodist, a Pentecostal, a Roman Catholic church, or an Anglican (Church of England) church. Perhaps an Evangelical Church or an independent church. Perhaps it's services/meetings are held in a church, chapel or meeting hall. It was to try and get some understanding of your spiritual roots.

In what county do you live?

also i dont feel as nauseous as i was before btw

well they were divorced since i was young and i dont know where he is now. im only 15 years old. im not really sure when the pinching was but it was probably on the 1st or seconnd week after what had happened. the nausea comes and goes but it wasnt as bad as before. these past days ive been having light/dark brown discharge. since saturday almost like its period but hardly noticable. if this was implantation bleeding. i dont think it would last this long. right?
i go to a roman catholic church.

"they were divorced since i was young and i dont know where he is now." I'm sorry to hear that.

"im not really sure when pinching was ..." I was hoping for dates so I could perhaps have a better idea of what the pinching could be.

"if this was implantation bleeding. i dont think it would last this long. right?" Implantation bleeding usually only lasts for a couple of days at the most.

"almost like its period but hardly noticable" Irregular periods often mean irregular bleeding patterns.

whats the difference of symptoms in early pregnancy and when ur about to get ur period?