Hi I am 34 could I be going through premenopause? I saw a lot of postings on this subject but there weren't any responses... I'm hoping that I will get a response back. My husband and I have a 5 year old son and want to have at least one mre- We have been having sex regularly and unprotected of course..... period is 10 days late - I have taken 2 tests both neg. I've been having cramps for the past 2 weeks as if my period is coming any minute (I remember feeling the same way when I was pregnant with my son) my breast are increasingly getting more sore and I feel ill, stomach very sensitive, have a constant feeling of throwing up, stomach in the throat, sometimes sweat at night, very moody. No period yet. Lower back ache etc.. I wonder if its possible that a urine test could show neg even if I am pregnate say low hcg count......how long should I wait? Maybe a blood test would be better?