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i need help as i am 16 and i have had a bf but i dont have one and everyone i look at like boys always call me fat and ugly what should i do should i change and loose weight and make ma self look bad all for one boy really need help :) x

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hunny if u change ur appearance do it because its what u want and because its what makes u happy. dont change for what other people think or for some guy because if you have to change urself for them then they arenot worth your time to begin with
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Look in your mirror. What do you see? If you see a young lady who is over weight, fix it, if you see that same young lady who call's herself ugly (which i doubt), fix it. 16 is such an delicate age for a girl and it seem's like everything is either fat or ugly. Having a skinny scrawny model figure is ugly as it look's like a good meal would literally send these girl's to the toilet to puke. There is WAY to much emphasis on being model skinny these day's and so many young girl's strive to look like the people they see on magazine cover's and television all the time.

When you say fat...what does that mean? 15 pounds over weight...30, 40? Diet and excercise can take care of that in no time. When you say that you are ugly...what does that mean? Do you have 2 head's and wart's growing out of your nose? No one is ugly really, and there is so much you can do in the beauty department that will change your looks dramatically without surgery. I realize that look's are important to a young girl, but to change yourself or worry yourself sick for a boy is ridiculous. The first person you need to make happy is yourself because your the only one that matter's.

Take a good look at yourself and begin to change thing's. Eat healthy, excercise, keep your hygiene up, and go on a diet for yourself. Your only 16 and because you are so young it won't take long until you begin to notice thing's changeing. After you see a difference in the mirror, you will want to make some changes to the rest of you. Experiment with makeup, try a new hairstyle, cut it or color it, you will be amazed how confident and self assured you become.

Do all this for yourself not for some boy. It will take a little time but in the end, you will be the winner.

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hello,

hell no girl listen im a 21 year-old girl from montreal,canada. ive been overweight from round 10 to 18 years old, around 160-175 pounds and im pretty small(5 pi 2). im at 122 now, i am very conftable in my skin and im not looking for some dang man. i lost my weight by starting to walk at school instead of takin subway+bus now i take all the stairs in the subway, walk instead of bus, informed myelf a lot on nutrition and how you eat, watched dr,oz as well lol and learned to my change my lifestyle, cuz thats the only true way you lose weight. exercise + eating good and nutritious. i eat often and like a pig everyday (like 6 small meals but i eat a lot a big variety of fruit of veg, nuts, grains(pumpkin seeds, sumflower)) i take a small plate instead of a big to take less. but do it if you wanna feel good and free, not for love. cuz it will not be for the right reasons and oyull end up feeling like theres something missing, being the beautiful girl that you are. =) good luck success and godbless.

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fruits, nuts, grains and MEAT LOTTA MEAT PREFERABLY CHICKEN FISH BUT ANYTHING IS ALLLLRIGHT WE NEED GOOD QUALITY PROTEIN
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no dont't chamge youreself for boys eventually you will find some one that likes you for you!
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NO !!!!!! Always remember you are perfect just the way you are !!! If he really loved and cared about you he wouldn't care about how you look. He's not worth it believe me! If you want to change anything in your life it should be you that decides and wants it. Not anyone else
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Don't change for a boy. If it is meant to be with them then they will accept you for who you are. If they want you to change then they aren't worth your time. You are as beautiful as you feel on the inside, and someone special will see that. Trust me.
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