quitting masturbation but wana find somthing out !

14 or 30 times a week? Well, that is a lot. I would say that this he's addicted to masturbating. 

Sure that he can quit masturbating. I understand that he, you or whoever other loves to masturbate but in his case, that is way too much.

Now, if he has time to masturbate 14 to 30 times a week, that means that he is not doing nothing else. He doesn't have any hobby, he is not into sports, books, etc. 

So, you are guessing - he needs to find something like that - he needs to find something that is going to distract him from doing this. Good book, bicycling in the nature, etc is just enough. 

when i quit i eased off of it and went from like 7-10 to 2-4 then to 2 then just hel off alltogether eventually you will get there but all in one day isn't goin to work. also try to stop watching porn first because you need to try and stop things that stimulate you.

course i had to start again felt to good. i enjoy it wy to much but i remember to keep it in check.

First, anyone who thinks they are going to quit is kidding themselves.
It does feel good. And we do things that feel good.
Men who do not have other regular outlets masterbate. And anyone who tells you otherwise is lying.

Yes, there are a few men who do not masterbate. But they are few and far between. Most all men masterbate throughout their lives... when they are in the army... away at college... away from their mate....and even after they are married. It won't end, but your desire for it is lessened by other outlets.

Now, if you're asking why you keep thinking of sex, why everything arouses you... consider this: You've trained yourself. Given time, you can train yourself NOT to consider every woman a sex object.

But it take time and maturity.
Right now, the two of you are in the prime of your sexual development. Even the slightest breeze can get you turned on.

It'll take awhile to retrain yourself into other interests.
Good luck.

Why would you stop masturbating?? women do it too by the way.... I enjoy it. i am in a relationship but still masturbate a lot. Even in school, sometimes go into bathroom and masturbate when mood strikes and sometimes my friends and i get together and masturbate, it feels good.. and its very enjoyable to watch someone else masturbate.

I have tried weening myself off. It nevers works. And neither has going cold turkey. I'm going to give cold turkey one more shot. If I fail this time I'm getting help. Anyway, the reason I'm stopping is because while it feels wonderful while I'm doing it, I always feel awful after masturbating. It just doesn't feel worth it.

There should be no reason to stop masturbating. Just like you said & I agree I do love to masturbate.  Now you say your friend masturbates at lest 14 times a week, this is only two times a day which is acceptable for his age.. it's the times he does it five times a day which is rather excessive. Find out the reason why he needs to do it that many times  a day, is there something you can do with him so he doesn't have the compulsion to masturbate that much, You maybe have him start a log for each day the date and time he masturbated, sometimes writing it down you visualize it and it means more to you so he can really see how much he masturbates