We started having oral sex a few weeks ago and whenever she stimulates me orally (and sometimes even by hand) I end up with my foreskin rolling really far back and the head of my penis (penis glans, I think it is called) popping out. I've watched a bit of porn and I know that is what happens, but mine hurts me. Even the slightest touch of her tongue/fingers and even my inner thighs and underwear hurts the head a bit. I always try to tolerate it and ignore it, but it always comes in the way of pleasure and I eventually always have to stop her. She apologises a lot thinking it's her fault, but I know she does nothing wrong.
So what I'm trying to ask is, is this what is supposed to happen and am I just being too sensitive? Is there a way I can avoid the pain or do I just need to get over it and be a man?
Or are we doing something wrong?
(When sometimes I ask her to hold the shaft instead of the head, the way I do it, I end up ejaculating with no sight of the glans, just like masturbating by myself.)
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Yeah, it's a lot better now. Doesn't hurt any more, started having sex and everything. :) Thanks a lot.
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Hi Shubhamkhatri:
It is normal for the glans to be sensitive because your foreskin has been protecting it for your whole life.
The foreskin is there to protect the head of the penis and keep it moist and sensitive. If it hurts, don't touch it. Keep your foreskin forward to protect the head. It will probably get less tender later.
I don't think anything is wrong with your penis. It sounds normal to me. The head is supposed to be sensitive.
There is no reason for you to touch the head so just don't touch it. Pull your foreskin forward to cover the head to protect it and you should be fine.
Masturbation works best if you keep the foreskin forward where it covers and protects the head.
You do not have to retract your foreskin to receive oral. The foreskin is filled with nerves and loves to be sucked. Just tell your girlfriend to not pull back your foreskin and keep it forward and suck on the foreskin.
Make sure that your partner is well lubricated when you have sex. You have the option to wear a condom for protection.
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