Me and my boyfriend both lost our virginity to each other, and we've only tried sex twice. I expected the first time to hurt like hell, and it did. Then we gave it a little bit of time and tried it again. It barely felt any better whatsoever.
I talked to some friends about it, one said that my vagina was more tense because it was my first time and I was too nervous (and not turned on enough), and the other one said that there was something wrong with my vagina.
My parents don't know what I've done, so I can't get myself checked out without getting in a heap of trouble.
Help?
I talked to some friends about it, one said that my vagina was more tense because it was my first time and I was too nervous (and not turned on enough), and the other one said that there was something wrong with my vagina.
My parents don't know what I've done, so I can't get myself checked out without getting in a heap of trouble.
Help?
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sb.
You did not tell us your age, but with parnets, it sounds like you are a high schooler. Yes your vagina has not expanded to acommitate your boyfriend :O , but that will change with time and more intercourse. ;-)
If you are over 16, ask to have a doctor's appt. for a annual gyno tests, as your g/f's said "they found something about have one at your early age" :$ or call for your own appt. with the gyno, tell them you wish for some tests and do you need parents permission? %-) If you feel only comfortable with a female doctor to do the exam :$ , ask for one at the time of making the appt. and let your parents find out have the appt. :-S Or there is the free clinics like planned parenthood :$ , with out parent;s permission required.
RT :-S
ps take a look at my blog here called Sexapeal, it has some links you may find worth reading. ;-)
You did not tell us your age, but with parnets, it sounds like you are a high schooler. Yes your vagina has not expanded to acommitate your boyfriend :O , but that will change with time and more intercourse. ;-)
If you are over 16, ask to have a doctor's appt. for a annual gyno tests, as your g/f's said "they found something about have one at your early age" :$ or call for your own appt. with the gyno, tell them you wish for some tests and do you need parents permission? %-) If you feel only comfortable with a female doctor to do the exam :$ , ask for one at the time of making the appt. and let your parents find out have the appt. :-S Or there is the free clinics like planned parenthood :$ , with out parent;s permission required.
RT :-S
ps take a look at my blog here called Sexapeal, it has some links you may find worth reading. ;-)
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Prior to penetration, spend more time with foreplay. This will help relax you and allow your body to produce natural lubricant in your vagina. Allow him to masturbate you with his fingers to increase your lubrication.
Wait until you are very 'moist' before penetration with his penis. Failing that, try using an additional lubricant such as KY jelly. Your boyfriend will enjoy having this rubbed on to his penis during foreplay. Assuming that he is using a condom, the lubricant should be put on the outside! You can buy condoms with lubricant on them.
Wait until you are very 'moist' before penetration with his penis. Failing that, try using an additional lubricant such as KY jelly. Your boyfriend will enjoy having this rubbed on to his penis during foreplay. Assuming that he is using a condom, the lubricant should be put on the outside! You can buy condoms with lubricant on them.
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