swollen, painful, irritated vagina after oral sex and fingering

Guest over a year ago

Im having the same problem! Ahhh im so nervous how does it swell just from fingering??
The swelling has pretty much went down the next moring. When it happened I sat in a cold bath assumming it would help the swelling. It went down some but it still hurts alot! My guess is he was too rough and scratched me and maybe got infected.. which im [rayin didnt because I really hate goin to the doctor!

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Guest over a year ago

hi so i have the same problem. like its sunday morning and the swelling started friday night. I have been icing it since saturday afternoon and it hasnt gone down at all. Like it was extremely rough. i dont know what else to do. I went to the doctors and the just told me to ice it but it hasnt dont much at all. Any advice?

please respondddddd

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Guest over a year ago

btw same thing happened to my g.f when we had oral... she was having the same type of itching....it may takes 3 dayz to cure completely so we have to be patient... wash ur vagina properly with water preferable if u use diluted detol to wash.... then apply cold mustard oil (Use ice in the oil) inside the vaginal walls however it will hurt only for sometime but will surely help to cure.. apply some oil on the top of the vagina and gently press the vagina you will surely feel relief.. apply the oil every 6 hours... and u will feel the difference after a day....if there is swelling use warm water to wash preferable if u use a socked cotton cloth in warm water to wash the vagina...

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Guest over a year ago

A good suggestion is to try to relax and not stress too much on the problem or it could make it worse and to try to ice it or take a hot bath like stated above... It may sound wierd but when it happened to me I had to take a really hot shower and stop wearing anything tight... no jeans or tight short shorts. Blood flow was a big thing for me personally so I suggest try streching, it helped me. Mine went away in just a few days and the pain stopped almsot immediatly when I streched...

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Guest over a year ago

hi everyone I had the same problem a few days ago with Someone I'm seeing he started off fingering and it started to hurt which I was Not expecting (seeing as I've been fingered quick alot before) and he then has Sex which still hurt abit due to being dry. As soon as I got home I was swollen alot!! And when I went to the toilet it hurt alot...it slowly went But I'm very sensitive the past few days...how can I stop all of above happening??

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Guest over a year ago

This same thing happened to me, my boyfriend ate me out and fingerd me, it was rough and dry, and happened on and off all night. Im scared and dont know what to do. I am extremely itchy aswell, like all the time! This hasnt happened before?? i have been fingered many times and aten out a couple, my cherry hasnt been poped yet, i thought it was just like all the other times where it was soar for the rest of the night but i was fine by morning, but its been 2 days and it still hurts? im not wanting to see a doctor unless the pain is getting even more worse. i cant walk, sit, lay down or anything. I am very much into sports tho and have physical activity everyday, should i stop with that till it heals?

What do i do?? %-) Is this normal or even healthy??

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tataah over a year ago

Basically this happens...

your partner was extreamly too rough.. and now everything is swolloen your walking funny ect.

this happened to me actually and this is what you do:

dont wear under wear when you sleep... you prolly already figured this out but if not this will help you. it wont rub against your irritation and make it more irritated.

you can ice it or take a hot bath. i did both and it helped me out.

i also shaved the aarea constantly til it healed that will help with the itching cuz its basically the hairs poking your sensitive area.

i also put a healing ointment on it..not in it.. on it. lol helps the process go quicker.

hope this helps.

ps if you cant sleep. sleep with your legs open.

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Guest over a year ago

in all honesty a friend of mine had the same problem excepts she caught herpes from the guy he had genital herpes and performed oral sex on her and thats how she got it cuz he was broke out at the time and blisters was in his mouth and she didnt kno...so i would take it seriously and go to a doc asap...

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Mandielee79 over a year ago

I honestly fill better knowing I am not the only out there that has this problem, I was freaking out! I cant sit down it even herts to lay down, my husband and I had really good but rough oral sex and he was fingering me pretty rough but felt good at the time, actually didn't start herting till a day after, but now it herts super bad!

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Guest over a year ago

How long did it take for the swelling to go away? My bf performed very rough suction and its hutting very bad...i cant walk and i work tomorrow...and my job consist of walking ALOT ;/

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Guest over a year ago

Its like my left lip is super swollen its scary! & it hurts really bad its also very purple. I iced it and it helped the pain and a bit of swelling...but its very purple..im scared is there anything i can do to make it go away faster :/

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Guest over a year ago

To everyone that goes through this..or is going i suggest...to go to the ER Asap..i just got out the ER...they had to cut me down their to drain all the clogged up blood...my left labia was huge..swollen n very purple...i researched..& i saw many say it would go away in 3days...i waited 3days ...and it just got worst...so please go to the Doc Asap...this is caused by..rough oral sex....rough sex...or any trauma (getting hurt ...like getting hit or something) ...im now home and feel very releived...so if you are yoing just let your parenrs know..and if you dont want them to know exactly how it was caused say that u got hurt in a bike or something....just go..because it will get worst....

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Guest over a year ago

The same thing is going on with me right now, my boyfriend has only fingered me a few times but this time was really rough and toasted the end it hurt. The next day it was red and today it was red and swollen. Sometimes it stings. Did yours go away? What did you do? How long did it take?

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Guest over a year ago

It happens all the time. Its completely normal if you choose the fingering route. Inevitable. If he fingers you with dirty hands and/or it being way dry then you will become irritable. Its like giving a guy a dry hand job. You can be hella rough. Just be lubricated and you will be fine.

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Cassidy2626 over a year ago

The same thing happened to me today, I just had sex with my guy friend that I like, & it really hurt at first cuz It wasnt fitting all the way. & at one point he was rubbing my clit alot to get me wet. Which made my lips swell along with the rough sex & oral. I iced it with an ice pack & already feels better. The swelling hasn't gone down yet but I'm sure by the next day or so everything should be backto normal. Also cleaning yourself after intercourse is helpful. My doctor told me that you should take a damp cloth & wipe, FRONT to BACK. not the other way around. & (BEFORE URINATING) hope this helps (:

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