I have already been tested negative twice, the first time three months after sexual contact and the month after (1st 3 months, 2nd 4 months). However, i have never felt worse in my life. I feel tired/deasy?* every day since the day after i had sex for the first time and the only time, sometimes with a slight headache or fever.. Just enough to bother you.. it seems normal, but I have lived with this problem for over 3 months and every day it gets worse.. it's like a permanent weight over my head and shoulders, always tired, sleep for 12 hour and after that i continue being tired... I have like 5 purple/red/brown spots in my pelvic area and my penis, besides that, every physical part of me looks the same.. can't express the way i'm feeling, i don't know if it's strange, down or is it something that I’m not aware of.. I don't do sports as I used too, just want to wake up one day and feel better.. Is it a Std? Nerves? Stress? HIV?? Please help..... I’m afraid to go to my family doctor, but i'm convinced that's the way to go.. Sometimes i feel fine, but that's when I’m distracted, partying or drinking