Can sex still hurt the first few times even if you don't have a hymen and are a virgin?
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perhaps, some womens vaginas arent used to having such large objects inside them, or such vigourous movement.
but they are naturally stretchy and resiliant (if it can stretch to fit a baby though there it has to be!)
if you take your time, allowing the body and muscles to relax and lubricate itself it will be much easier, dont rush straight into it, get used to being naked together and perhaps a little foreplay, mutual masturbation or oral to prepare the muscles into relaxing,
being nervous or anxious tightens them and makes it more painful. it isnt intense pain, more a mild discomfort as the body djusts.
I would suggest using a water based lubricant such as "Durex Play", as this allows the penis to gently glide into the vagina without friction or resiliance, and is much more comfortable. dont use an oil based lubricant, as these weaken condoms! So NO vaseline or baby oil!
Be safe! Use protection!!!! condoms are great. use them!
but they are naturally stretchy and resiliant (if it can stretch to fit a baby though there it has to be!)
if you take your time, allowing the body and muscles to relax and lubricate itself it will be much easier, dont rush straight into it, get used to being naked together and perhaps a little foreplay, mutual masturbation or oral to prepare the muscles into relaxing,
being nervous or anxious tightens them and makes it more painful. it isnt intense pain, more a mild discomfort as the body djusts.
I would suggest using a water based lubricant such as "Durex Play", as this allows the penis to gently glide into the vagina without friction or resiliance, and is much more comfortable. dont use an oil based lubricant, as these weaken condoms! So NO vaseline or baby oil!
Be safe! Use protection!!!! condoms are great. use them!
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