I met my husband when I was 18 and he was 20 and I'm turning the big 40 this year. Our sex life has been great during all these years we have sex every week and I give him oral sex once to twice a week... So basically I've given him oral well over 1500 times during our relationship and he has reciprocated less then 10 times during our relationship.
I've put up with it and every year or two complained a lot and he will finally give in and do it once and then not again.
I've had enough though and I want it too. Is it normal for guys to be like this? Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to help him get over his problem? I'm at the point where I feel undesirable down there and that I'm asking for something that men just don't do and women shouldn't expect.
is it normal for girls not to get it and do most guys really not like it?
also he only goes near my top bit and doesn't venture anywhere else?
I've just booked an appointment to see a sex therapist but can't get in for 2 weeks and would really like to know what is and isn't normal.
thanks everyone
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Have you asked him why he doesn't like to do it? This doesn't sound normal to me, I do it to my girlfriend all the time. The one thing that would really put me off is if the woman tasted bad.
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I love cunnilingus and thought that most love it too. I think you husband is being unreasonable expecting you to give him oral but giving virtually none in return :( Perhaps you should have sorted him out when you fist married him, he may be too set in his ways now. Maybe you could buy a video on how to do cunnilingus and show it to him.
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