so me and my boyfriend would make out and grind (with clothes on, no penetration) and his leg would be somewhat near my vagina, but again, nothing inside of anything. last week after we kissed like this while trying to make me moan, I went to the bathroom and I was bleeding very lightly. I was also ovulating so I asked my mom and she said it could've been because of that, or I tore my hymen somehow. It hurt a bit while the grinding was happening.Then the same thing happened yesterday, three days after the first bleeding. Except this time it didn't really hurt at all and he got me to moan. what the hell does this mean??? am i tearing my hymen? p.s. I'm still a virgin.