I just a little girl 11 days ago! 6lbs 10oz, o f adorable cuteness!! but im in so much pain i cant even hold her when i need to. i had a 2nd degree episiotomy, but the pain isnt in my perineal area, its my entire vaginal area, down to the bone! its hurts to stand up straight, sit down in any position, and i have stairs in my house so i basically have to crawl up and down them. is this pain normal and how long should it last?