What causes my vaginal irritation?

First of all I can tell you that this is a very common “first sex issue”!
There are many possible causes of your vaginal irritation.
First that crossed my mind is some trivial bacterial infection and if this is your problem, it can be easy treated with local antibiotic in a shape of pills called vaginaletts.
The other cause is rear but possible and that is that you could be allergic on condom gum. I know that this sounds funny but it’s present.
If this is the cause your boyfriend should seek for a special condoms in drugstore made of gum with small allergic possibility and your problems will be solved.
What ever is the cause-it is easy treated.
I wish you luck!

well i think what is happening to you is normal and the sti is easily cured.

my case is different, i have soreness, inching and a yellowish discharge plus very dry virgina. can this be the reason am not conceiving?

Yes it could be any of these my problem when i had this was i am allergic to latex condoms so that is a big issue for me i hope this helps?

well thank you for that insight but the now i would like to know, is it fatal, can it cause permanent infertility?
i have been trying for a child for two years and this scares me, my boy friend is going to leave me and the other thing is that i can not start on antibiotics before i see my next period in 3-4 days on hopes of having conceived. please help. can it be cured?