TO MISS Unattractive ...HI I'M a girl and i am 21years old and ..I have only one thing to say to you ( are you CRAZY ) ? .. BE vary happy with your LABIA the way it is !.. some girls will tale you that some girls LABIAS hang down and look's like a boys ( N sack ) !! if you know what I am saying ..be happy that yours are some what up inside you .. GOOD BY from Miss SAM in South East GA 31539 PS Hope you want get MAD at me for saying what I have to you .. I will close with a :-) face to you good day or good night and have a nice day + GOOD LUCK
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I am the original poster and just reread this post. It implies that pressures below 5mmhg and times less than a couple minutes are best. This is true, but only necessary for those just starting - starting with too much pressure you will end up with little dark spots from tiny blood vessels bursting. Not painful or harmful, but not pretty. -However- those who have been doing this for a while do not have this problem. In fact, pressures as high as 10mmhg (or even approaching 15) are safe for most. Additionally, times up to 10 minutes are safe. We recommend to give these tissues a chance to re-oxygenate every 10 minutes. This means take the pump off let things settle for a minute (a great time for massaging with a healthy oil such as coconut oil - or even for oral sex with a partner). Then put the cup back on and reapply pressure for another 10 minutes. The body experiences about 14 mmhg in atmospheric pressure (avg), so going too much below that is where the problem starts. Your body will tell you if you listen.
If you want 'too much information' ... my husband sometimes does this for me. While he is using his pump, he takes care of me. We use coconut oil (which absorbs quickly, is good for the skin, does not sticky and tastes good). We pump three times for 10 minutes at 15 mmhg and he massages me with his hands or mouth between (heaven). When we are ready, the sensations are very strong. His pumping does not affect his length (which is fine to be honest, and length changes are actually impossible) but makes his girth temporarily and significantly greater. When my lips are this full, it helps that he is even thicker (his size is actually fairly big to start).
We don't do this all the time, but it is a fun alternative. Honestly, I think I get more out of it than he does.
As another poster stated and I will repeat, this is only for you. Men like all sorts of shapes - they are more versatile than we give then credit for being. Men are much more excited by a woman's behavior than the particulars of her body. One of my male colleagues once said - "I'd much rather be with a girl who really loves sex than with a supermodel who doesn't - and I wouldn't give up the first for anything.".
So, girls ... love yourselves the way you are, don't worry about your body's little oddities, put your 'hang-ups' away and explore your partner with gusto. Learn from and teach each other, don't judge (if you don't want to be judged) and try new things. I wasted my twenties while in med school, thinking all men wanted from me was sex. Yes, they want that, but so did I. They are so obvious that it is hard to imagine they can also want to be with -you- as a person. I am past this. My husband and I have only grown closer.
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hi , i am mad about large labia , i am married , but my wife doesnt have any at all , this is now getting to me , as i just dont get turned on , i fear our relationship may come to an end over it , what can i do
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I know it sound disgusting but if you put it at night during your period it work because wen you in your period its soft down there but it helps i mean it's your blood you can wash up before doing it and after
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You can help her do it, pull it for her at night this may sound discussing but she's your wife do it for her when she's in her period tell her to wash up before you can do it for her because during her period is soft so it makes it bigger fa at when yu in your period or you can help her do it 2 days before her period
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thanks for sharing this actually I want to make mine long but I don't know where to pull. please help
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U don't need all that. B happy with what u have. I'm a guy. If u wana talk letme know
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Should I finger myself as well or just rub? Becoz I'm not a fan for fingering but I will if I have to, in order to make my lips bigger?
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