What's WRONG WITH ME, I JUST CAN'T CUM

Guest over a year ago

I’m a 35 year old woman that just can’t cum I really don’t know what’s wrong with me, I allow my partner to pleasure me with his mouth and it still doesn’t help this has been a problem for a while now can someone help me

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Guest over a year ago

Lucky for you guys at least your boyfriend understands you I’m 19 years old with a 25 year old I told him I can’t cum and he starts getting mad and start saying don’t lie to me I made you cum this and that he started a big argument for nothing when I wanted him to try to understand me it kinda push me away and I just let him think he does which gets me mad because I wanna know how it feels to get pleasure like most people do

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Guest over a year ago

Hi
I’m going to be 40 this year. I was in a 20 year relationship ( I came 1x “ I think”) every time I touch myself I instantly go completely dry ( normally I’m dripping wet when my bf touches me), he is way bigger then my ex and satisfisy me mind body and spirit. BUT I CANT CUM!!! And now he’s getting a complex ( a is it him thing) even though I explained over n over.
I had childhood trauma and a c**p life. I have been to therapy ( years ago) and they said I stuff everything since childhood and until I deal with that I’ll have none. I refuse to believe this. Please any help!!i have FINALLY found the man of my dreams and want this to work

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Guest over a year ago

Hey to all you you girls out there, it will "cum" lol, natural just don't force it!! Try getting on top , or masterbating to find out what does it for you. You'll probably find simulating your clit while being penetrated helps your all normal! And it will happen ! And when it does you won't leave your man alone!!!!!!

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Guest over a year ago

wtf lmaoo you wild

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Guest over a year ago

Same here man

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Guest over a year ago

Honey, darling, there is a little very sensitive piece of flesh. That part that tingles when you think about him.... tell that man to lick it gently until you scream in pleasure....the CLIT is the source of 99.9% of female orgasms. Let him munch your little clam then bang, f**k as you are finishing and you will both be very happy. Promise.

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Guest over a year ago

Me neither and I'm 27!

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Guest over a year ago

How do I cum

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Guest over a year ago

Big penis i can not cum

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Guest over a year ago

To be honest I gave up a while ago trying to cum even tho I'm only 12-13

1) It's so annoying and frustrating hearing about other people saying that it's so good and in your head your just like "I wish I was them!"

2)I have high anxiety so I can't ever properly relax

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Guest over a year ago

Well im 40 and never had 1

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Guest over a year ago

Not sure how old this question is, but it's equally his fault as it is yours ( not trying to shame you) teenage boys don't know what the hell they are doing. Lol ( speaking on my experience from when I was in high school. I'm 22 now) Its important to masturbate, because you try things and discover your turn ons and turn offs, and what your comfortable and not comfortable with. Experimenting is necessary, even if you have to take your time with learning about yourself. Maybe suggest your bf give you more foreplay befor you two commence sex? Some people need more stimulation, espically if you have a vagina. People with vaginas sometimes need more clitoral stimulation, so maybe look into buying a vibrator that he can use on you during sex? Or during foreplay? Also, make sure you lube it a little, because it's not going to be as fun if you don't have a bit of mositurizer. I don't know how older this comment is again, nor how old you are now, but never believe there's something wrong with you just because a biycant make you cum. That's a ridiculous mindset to have, dear. If he or whoever your with isn't willing to take the time to make you comfortable, nor help you both figure out your do's and dont's then your sexual relationship will eventually crumble. And if it does? Don't fret. Theres a person out there, waiting to be discovered by you. Your life doesn't stop at highschool boyfriend's lol. Also, please get tested regularly, wear a condom/use birth control, and please be safe.

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Guest over a year ago

Also, erm.. replyinb to the other reply on your comment.. a bathtub faucet is your friend. If you have a waterproof sex toys( or even if u don't, just be very careful not to let water get in you, it'll f**k your pH levels up!!) look up videos about this and you'll see what I mean. Have fun and be safe

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Guest over a year ago

Women cannot cum. But i'm not too sure.

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