Why cant i get a boyfriend is there something wrong with me?

same. I think many people have this problem but no one talks about. I am 14 and I've never been kissed. I have eczema on my legs and when when I first went to high school I was bullied, both of these things have ruined my confidence I am friends with many guys but none of them see me like that. this didn't bother me until a couple of months ago, but now I think about it all the time

Wow it actually makes me sad how young you girls are as I am 20 and I have only had one boyfriend, which lasted for less than one month.

I am really into school so I am not looking...but GOD i am so lonely sometimes. I think I am pretty but don't understand why guys don't talk to me.

Someone once told me I give off a very rude vibe. I am a very nice person but I think people are scared to approach me?

Anyways they say don't look for it and love will come...but I haven't looked for it for 6 years and nothing is happening!! :$

I don't understand why you young girls feel you need to be paired up at such a young age. I know, it seemed like all the other guys had girl friends when I was there too, and I didn't. I felt it was unfair that I didn't, and I probably felt all the things you feel. I met a girl during the last week of school in my junior year in high school and we dated for a while. Her family went to live at their lakeside camp for the summer while I had to stay home and work. After a few weeks she found a guy who was staying at the lake and that was the end of us. I never had another girl while I was in school. I didn't go to the senior prom because I didn't have a girl to go with.

The winter after graduation I was working in a cotton mill when I met a girl whose father was a second hand and she was a battery hand. We dated until that summer when the mill closed down for the 4th of July week. Her father rented a camp on a lake and they invited me to go with them. On Tuesday some guy came by with a boat and she went water skiing. She was still water skiing behind his boat on Thursday when I couldn't take it anymore and I came home.

A couple years later I was in the army and I was snagged by a colonel's daughter. That's right, she grabbed me and held on for a year and a half. Finally she met a 2nd lieutenant that her mother liked, and I was history. Her mother hated me because I was enlisted. Her father, the colonel, liked me well enough to loan me his car to take his daughter out, but fathers don't count. I felt like I'd been rode hard and put away wet, but it was the best damn ride I ever had.

It was seven lonely years later when I was on a TV service call and there was this cute girl laying on the sofa watching me fix the TV. The following week she was watching me again ---- at her uncle's house. The next time I was at her father's house I asked her mother about her and I called her for a date that night. A few months later we got married.

During the years when I was without girl, I put my effort into two things I liked, electronics, which there was none of in our school. I had to learn it on my own outside school. The other was building dragsters. I Did that for 16 years and the pleasure of racing against Shirley Muldowney for 7 of those years, all over New England and Canada. I'm still doing the electronics and TV repair.

So I had only one girl while I was in school and only two in the following 9 years until I met my wife. So it isn't necessary to be attached to someone all the way through school or after. I did other things I liked and I still ended up married. You can't make someone else like you any more than they can make you like them. You just have to wait for two of you who like each other, to meet.

it just seems like guys are interested in stick skinny girls n am not like that (am not fat either) i think am preety(every1 says i am) n i got a curves in the right places am fun n am always smilin, i get along with guys n we have a laugh but they dont seem interested in goin out with me , n that makes me feel like shitt n ugly n worst of all the two guys that i've been really interested in went for my best friend(ouch) that really hurt me n i still havent recovered from that lol its like am tired of waiting why wont it happen ??? i have only got 1 yr of skul left n still nothing uurrrghhhhh wats wrong with me? i wish i could put my pik up n ppl could rate me coz am havin mixed feelings like maybe all those ppl who sed i look hot n pretty r lying uurrrggg i feel like screaming crying am just so worked up over this :'(

I am a gay 40 year old guy. I have had love 2 times in my life, but it did not last. I have dated some since 2003, but it never lasts. But really what is most worrisome is that I cannot even get a guy to go for tea let alone date me. I am pretty good looking for a 40 year old. I am smart, I am confident. I have a career I like and a life that is good except for this one thing. I have tried both forgetting about dating and not looking to being actively prooactive. What I have found is gay guys are all prats and cowards. Some of them say they want relationships, but what they want are head games and/or sex. When a nice stable loving man offers them the opportunity of a great romance, they run for the friggin hills every time, and very few of them ever tell you why or even say goodbye....So all you girls are NOT alone believe me.....

I have many short term boyfriends but cant keep one longer than a few months, they say one common thing " im too nice" but isnt there a guy out here that likes that? I get so depressed I can barely handle it. what is my problem? I dont want to die alone

You girls worry all the time..."Everyone at my school is dating, why can't I find a boy?"Yeah, everyone at your school is dating...Dating the first punk that has asked them to.If you're looking for someone to have sex with for two months and then dump, fine, be like those girls.From what I've seen that's how almost all of the teenage highschool girls do.What I'd like to look for is more of a soulmate.Someone who shares lots of your interests.Who you'd be entertained and happy with for a long time.And by the way, you've got NO IDEA how hard it is for homosexual people to find someone like that.Especially if their soulmate is straight.Stop worrying about it, you've got plenty of time for that.And if you're one of the shy ones, don't be afraid to make the first step ;-) .You'll regret it if you let him slip with someone else while you were wandering in the clouds hoping he'd ask you.

This has happened to me before. And believe me I felt the same way you do. I thought I was hideous and nobody wanted to date me, and i started getting aggravated at my friends because they kept talking about their boyfriends. I was terribly jealous. Then i realized a few years ago. Why not open up to different areas or counties besides the one I'm in now. And of course I got a great boyfried 3 years later who I'm still with now for a year and seven months. And my self esteem has risen so much because of him. You just got to believe in yourself, don't let other people bring you down in life. BE YOURSELF. no matter what other people think be who you want to be. Someone will come into your life that is perfect for you. You just have to wait and look. THere is someone I promise.

that is soo sad, and people shouldn't call u that, and does he call u that?

i no how u all feel, im 22 and ive never had a boyfriend. my friends all ave bf's and there all really happy and i want to have that too!! i just wish things like that were easier :-( i dont have a lot of confidence in myself and thats prob my biggest downfall but i want to be able to trust that one special guy with everything i have, esp my heart but all i seem to find are the dirtbags that seem nice to begin with but are only after one thing :-(

im crossing my fingers and even my toes in the hopes that someone special comes along for everyone on here. good luck!!

i know it sucks i cant get won either...
I mean i flirt some with my guy friends
and they seem to not be intrested im only in 5th grade but
i still really want one all my friends have one...

i am in high school and i never had a boyfriend. i am no that popluar i only have 3 best friends. and every one at school all they think about is sex. i am not like that i get sick of ppl talking about it. ppl make fun of me i dont know why but they do i dont were glass. and in 6th grade i had health class with him and the teacher made me sit next to him when we were learning about puberd i had a cruch name justin but he liked me but he movied away and in 7th grade he movied back and then we fight al the time and in 8th grade everone started makeing fun of me like i had been making fun of all my life time. and now in 9th grade justin's locker is right next to my friends locker i couldnt stand it. in 2 semester he was in my p.o.d class. i cant belive it and i think of him all the time. i dont want to think about him. i dont even like him anymore and i still think about him.i dont no if it fate to see him mostly ever where. i want a boyfrind soooooooooooo bad. i want to get over him too. ugggggg :( :( :( :( :( :( help me??>??

I cant find the right guy, the wrong type keeps coming into my life. I am relatively successful, friendly and I look good enough to attract the opposite sex, and in some cases the same sex. I feel, like I am probably meant to be single because I have been single for a few years, when I tell people this, they never believe me. I know most people would assume that I am extremely picky with my choices but this is not the case, I have a standard in the personality that I date, but it is pretty normal and realistic. I feel like I am going in circles...any advice?

Guys that come up to you are usually looking for something. Maybe you should try going up to guys and asking them out. Usually the shy types are the best.

i cant get a boyfriend to i think its cuz im a bit weighty but not much theres one boy that likes me but im so not intresseded im in to the naughty boys that get told off an things cuz im only 12 but no one that i like likes me i dont no wot to do all my friends have boyfriends i dnt they kiss em an everythin its not fair i wanna do it i just want one thats 12 an that has a pulse