omfg im the same like ALL my friends hve bf nd gfs and like i hve heaps of guy nd girl friends all my friends(girls) r really pretty
is it coz im really ugly ........ i mean i dnt wear make up nd all dat sh*t if i did do u think any guy would notice me and i dnt mean as a
friend or a joke :'( :'(
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I used to be that way. Every guy I liked or got close to ended up liking sister instead. So you can imagine how my self asteem was brought down considerably. That made me feel rejected, ugly and unwanted, so a few days out of the week I'd cry my eyes out while my sister was in the next room talking with the guy on the phone, so happy and giddy that boys were really interested in her. I was happy for her though.. in a way. Then it came to a point were I didn't care anymore. I tried making myself happy and I did. But then I made a conclusion out of that; I was never going to find anyone or fall in love. More crying... Then I got older, watched boys flock to my sister and wondering what was wrong with me. Then we started hanging out with our brother and his friends who we grew up with and some new others. We all became friends and talked and laughed and soon enough... the guys started liking my sister. I just faked a smile and went on my own somewhere, did my own thing. I did that for awhile, not carin what they thought of me or anything, and that got me out of my little sad state and I was genuinely happy. Then one day, one of my brothers friends tagged along with me. We started talking, becoming friends, and I started liking him.. a lot. Then a few months later he told me he liked me, said I wasn't like the others or my sister (that made me happy) and we started dating. And a year and two months later, we're happy and in love :) we laugh about back then where I thought I wasn't going to find anyone. But it takes time (for me it was long). Make yourself happy, do your own thing, be confident, don't care what others are doing or have (like bfs) and make yourself happy. If youre happy then people will be attracted to you and will want to get to know you. it's just a matter of time. Oh and sorry it's long _
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Ive had that problem. So many of the guys (our friends from childhood and my brothers friends too) my sister and i hung out with liked her, and not me. I thought something was seriously wrong with me. Then I just faked a smile and went on my own somewhere, did my own thing. I did that for awhile, not carin what they thought of me or anything, and that got me out of my little sad state and I was genuinely happy. Then one day, one of my brothers friends tagged along with me. We started talking, becoming friends, and I started liking him.. a lot. Then a few months later he told me he liked me, said I wasn't like the others or my sister (that made me happy) and we started dating. And a year and two months later, we're happy and in love :) we laugh about back then where I thought I wasn't going to find anyone and he always jokes that the reason I didn't get a bf back then was because I was waiting for him. It takes time (for me it was long). Make yourself happy, do your own thing, be confident, don't care what others are doing or have (like bfs) and make yourself happy. If youre happy then people will be attracted to you and will want to get to know you. it's just a matter of time before that certain some walks into your life.
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i feel the same way. i cant get a boyfriend. its not like i am wicked ugly.....i guess its just that i am scared a regection and refuse to put my self out there and actally express my self. everyone always says the same thing, "be your self", "dont worry it will come when its right", but i am so sick of seeing people who are crazy about each other, making each other feel special. all i want is for a guy to make me feel special....but i guess thats too much to ask! :(
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hey, i am 17 and never had a boyfriend and it makes me feel like total sh*t, all my friends can get boyfriends and stuff but i cant wtf is wrong with me?????? I dont understand why i cant get a boyfriend........:'( HELP!!!!!
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I know same here I cant get a boyfriend for some reason it sucks. All of my friends have one except for one but she thinks a guy will ask her out since she danced with her and ugh! what's the matter with me!
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hey i know exactly how you feel i even went as far as to try a datin website or 2 and i actually met one guy on there that i swore would be it for me we spent the entire day and night till 6am drinkin beers watching nmovies and talking he made the first move but never pushed for sex i was perfect literally euphoric i thought finally we made a date for the folowing saturday and i didnt hear from him at all after he left idk wat i did wrong but it hurts so bad when the nasty hoes in the world get these great loyal guys and somebody genuine cant find love for sh*t!!!!
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i'm the samee chick!!!
i really like this boy and i can never seem to get his attention or anything.....
just think theres plenty of time and plenty of more fish in the sea <3 xx
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DON'T feel that way! I'v felt that way all my life. I started to hate myself. I called myself fat, ugly, and can't get a guy.
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I completely understand how it feels. It's hard to watch all your friends grow up right before your eyes. Get a boyfriend and have kids! I always feel like how come that couldn't be me. I feel like I'm a sweet girl go out my way for ppl, I'm the type that if I was to see a homeless Ill put change in their cup! I definitely don't think I'm ugly but I know that I'm not Nikki Minaj Bad! It's crazy how judgemental ppl can be prejudging ppl before yu actually get to know them! I'm 18 and my nationality is Jamaican and American. Im 5'2 and 102 pounds. I'm very skinny. I
A girly girl my hair, nails is always done, I put on a bit a make up. I have big boobs size 32D. I just know that these days guys are into girls with a fat butt and I know I don't have that. I am surrounded by alot if guys and all they ever wanna do is have sex. It's extremely annoying now because that's not what I'm all about. I just dnt understand y they don't ever wanna date me. I experience guys who said to me that the aren't ready for relationships and a month or two later I see a post in Facebook stating that they are in a relationship I swear that's like a slap in the face. I graduated from highschool, I'm working and I am definitely gonna higher my education and will be attendin college. I have a very pretty voice love to sing. I have a bit of a baby voice some say I sound like a white girl or Nikki. I can impersonate her real good! Well I'm still young so I'll give it time I guess that dream guy will come hopefully
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Hi I'm Lieu. I'm Thai guy. I'm 28 and .I a personal trainer at fitness.
I interesting to know english more and find some lady to make a relationship
and if you interesting me just send message for me and you can see me at my facebook is Lieu & Guild Club
I interesting to know english more and find some lady to make a relationship
and if you interesting me just send message for me and you can see me at my facebook is Lieu & Guild Club
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OMG i am exactly the same im comming on 13 and ive never had a boyfriend its not fair all my friends are going out except me. i just wanna know what im doing wrong?? :(
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