Why cant i get a boyfriend is there something wrong with me?

i like a boy but he dont like i wish he can like me but he dont but my best friend siad that i need to be frst friend and then we can go out

i think your right but i think why dont u ask your friend to ask him out for you x And try to stand out from the crowd so he can recnise your

I know how u feel, im 14 and havent had a single boyfriend. :/ All you have to do is stop looking and be yourself and just get on with ur life really. Thats what ive decided to do :-) The right boy will come, dont you worry ;-)

I have same prob kinda but i mean im not that old (so it dont matter) but yeah in my old school every1 only liked me as a FRIEND (when I moved to Switzerland I made friends very quick and still lived up to my rep. not trying to boast but i have always been very athletic and I draw very well and learn quick im blonde but not dumb, "sicher nicht aka no way" , im not that old and know alot of languages) im just thinking if some1 could maybe tell me if thats somehow bad or good and BTW im SOOOOOOOOOO NOT fat LOL :-D and you rarely see me upset :-D

Aw!so sorry ,but i feel the same way cause, everyone says" aw your cute!" but i never get a boyfriend! But this really ugly girl (no offence to her) always manage to have a boy freind all the time! Just forget about the boys u dont like and concentrate on the one u do like!GOODLUCK :-D

I am a freshman in college and I still haven't had a boyfriend. None of you should be worried. I've only been asked out once, by a really creepy kid, 3 years ago (unless you count back when I was 13 and this 19-year old asked me to have sex in the shower with him--which I said no to, of course). I've been "talking" with several boys, but nothing ever gets past the "talking" stage--before I know it, the guy is in a relationship with somebody else. I know I'm not ugly, so I guess I'm just doing something wrong...but I don't know what :-(

In December I was in Singapore walking down Orchard Road when I saw the beautiful girl walking towards me and boy, she was a stunner. She was wearing a T shirt that said it all. "TELL ME AGAIN WHY I NEED A BOYFRIEND".

I have a theory about men. All men are bastards - some are just worse than others.

Just for the record, I am a man, married for 44 years and never cheated once. Unfortunately in today, this is not the norm. Far better to get on the bus going in the other direction and get yourself a girlfriend. I know I would if I were a girl.

I feel the same way!! Its all mexicans at my school and at my school they dislike white people and im like 1 out of the 4 white people. All the guys go for the girly girls to and i feel so ugly!! nobodys ever liked me. the only time a guy has asked me out is cuz he wanted to take advantage of me. Its hard being myself when everyones so judgementle (especialy cuz i have acne) but everyone goes on looks and i hate that!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sometimes i just give up and wana cry. :'(

high school girl i have the same prob it sucs likin someone who dont like you back and also gettin made fun of :/ ive gotten made fun of my whole life and no one ever seems to like me whichs makes me hate myself but not much i can do :-(

yeah i uderstand i can't get a boy friend eather i mean they say they like me but idk ever guy i like is always flirting with me and i flirt back but we never date i really like this guy named brandon and he doesnt know it i had someone ask him if he likes me and they said he doesn't though he flirts with me we are going to the movie like a double date but like thats it i dont think he realize but thats going on a date i cry over him he's single nice sencitive athlictic and funny and he look soooooo fiiine!!!! :$ :'( %-)

hey my name is kayla and i am 14 and i had a bf but i will give u one thing try asking them out and dont heat what u see when u look at your self thay r just being boys :-P ok i have 5 brothers >;) so i know and i know how u fell i heat the way other people treat girls that dont have a bf

I know how you feel, me and my best friend both really want a boyfriend and we bob feel so lonely defiantly as our friends have boyfriends it really does feel like there is something wrong with you. You obviously know that all boys want is a good looking girl or a trophy girlfriend, so you just have to wait until the right guy comes along who will treat you well and wants to get to know you instead of walking around with a barbie doll! Believe me I know how you feel and it's a horrible feeling but trust me it will get better x

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just know that you're not alone im a guy and i have the same problem only finding a gf though, but however i keep my head held high and ask myself am i actually ready for a relationship? or am i just desperate for another human being? you jus gotta relax and stop looking soo hard and please unless ur a mass murder lol stop blaming urself doing this is only going to make ur search harder, be safe and be positive.

None of you should be upset, worried or frustrated.

There is someone for everyone, there is no need to desperately enter a relationship with anyone as with time you will meet someone and not just anyone. For those of you in High school, relationships generally arn't very meaningfull, there is no need to go out with anyone simply because all your freinds are. If you do choose to go out with someone, make it someone you, and who you enjoy to spend time with.

Some of you mention that you worry to ask a boy out, despite popular beleif men can be shy at asking women out. So if you feel there is chemistry between you it can't hurt to ask as perhaps he is simply too scared too.

Most importantly, you are all beautiful individuals who will find love. Patience is key :)