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I am 19 years old. And I only had two boyfriends one was my jr year of high school (he cheated on me for 1/2 the relationship and was a control freak) the other was my senior year (he left a week before my birthday to date my best friend (guy)) I won't lie I did have really bad trust issues but I over came them I forgave them for all the hurt and the hate but now when I try to keep a open mind to dating again and know one likes me. I have a couple guys that talk to me saying they would date me but ik all they want is sex:( can anyone help me out

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Hello, 

just from the way you asked the question - 'What is wrong with ME' - I kinda do get where you're coming from. Just to repeat it, because it sounds to me like you're not convinced yourself - it was not your fault your first partner cheated, or that the second one did what he did. It affected your confidence and skewed your whole perspective on men - and no one could fault you for that.

However, you need to move on and the only way to do this is to actually give some guy a chance. Of course some of them will be after you just for sex, but if you ignore everyone on that account, you are risking to miss the one guy who actually might turn out to be honest. I know it's tough and you're risking your heart getting broken once again - but there is no other way to let someone in your life, unless you have at least some faith that not everyone is that bad.

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Hi there :) I totally agree with what nikolas said, just want to add something...

I know how it feels when yur trust is broken so here are few things u should remember:

1. Never loose yur confidence, believe in yurself

2. Not let anyone get into yur life that easily, i mean unless u know someone really well that u start trusting and this could take lots of time

3. Person learn from his/her own mistakes, so dont make that mistake again

4. Be happy always and never loose hope

Good Luck :)

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