I am 19 years old will be 20 in 5 months. Almost all of my friends got pregnant in high school and now all our couple friend are starting to have babies. I live with my boyfriend (26) we have been together for 5 years now, both of us have steady incomes. I wanted to have a baby at 16 already but something just kept me back. I am on birth control. Will it be selfish of me leaving BC and just getting pregnant with out discussing it with my partner? We have spoken about stating a family and also getting engaged. Is this just a vase that I’m going through ore am I just going mad?