My wife is talking to an x lover and it scares me to death 1 I have been in married for six years and together for nineteen years 2 We met at seventeen and had a relationship for two years. She left me and eventually met the guy she is corresponding with at the moment dirty messages 3 When I found out she told me his present wife had contacted her to help as she could no longer cope. It appears this guy has Erectile Dysfunction and my wife couldn't cope so left him. Now she feels she should help and this interaction helps him. 4 My wife is going back to the country that this man lives and a weekend together has been organised. 5 Help. I have loved this women all my life nearly and I am now 58. What scares the sh*t out of me is if she leaves me for this guy. I can handle her seeing this man if it is to help him. If i lose her then............ 6 Advise please!!!!!
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Hi Vincent,
Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with this situation.
1. How IS your marriage, really?
2. Dirty messages are inappropriate for her to have with another man regardless of the reason.
3. He needs a doctor to treat his ED, not another sexual partner.
4. It's nice that she wants to help him but traveling to another country AND them spending a weekend together is going WAY to far.
5. Be prepared to lose her.
6. Give her an ultimatum. She is to sever all communication with him or else. Start moving money, etc., out of joint accounts. You're about to get taken for a ride and divorced. Line yourself up with a good divorce attorney - NOW.
Good luck. You are going to need it.
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