the title says most of it, i've been with my bf quite a few months, and he's fingered me many times, but every time i bleed after/during and it lasts a couple days, it hurts a little sometimes when he does it, but i'm too scarred to say anything, and please dont tell me i'm too young, i know what i'm getting into and i dont want sex or anything and neither does he, but if u guys could help, it's be great!! thanksss!!
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I think the bleeding is that he is being a bit rough with you babe... and tearing at your insides a little. This isn't a good thing as it can lead to infection and also takes away from your enjoyment.
Best thing to do is to make sure he keeps his finger nails short and make sure you tell him he is hurting you! You could say something like "Baby, I love doing this with you.. but that is too rough and it hurts me a bit... could you please soften it, then I would like it even more!"
Um.. and also, babe, you should never be scared to say "stop" or "no" or "that hurts" to anyone... Maybe he doesn't realise he is hurting you and would be horrified if he knew? But also if he doesn't care about your feelings then he is NOT the right guy for you...
Why are you scared to say something, honey?
Best thing to do is to make sure he keeps his finger nails short and make sure you tell him he is hurting you! You could say something like "Baby, I love doing this with you.. but that is too rough and it hurts me a bit... could you please soften it, then I would like it even more!"
Um.. and also, babe, you should never be scared to say "stop" or "no" or "that hurts" to anyone... Maybe he doesn't realise he is hurting you and would be horrified if he knew? But also if he doesn't care about your feelings then he is NOT the right guy for you...
Why are you scared to say something, honey?
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thanks for the tipps!! and it's not really that i'm scared, i just don't know what his reaction would be, i'm sure he would care, but to the point where it's too much ad he makes himself feel bad and, he tends to take things really hard on himself.
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thankks for the tips!! and it's not really that i'm scared, its just like he defiantly would care, but he'd care too much, and make himself upset over it for days, ad he just takes things really hard sometimes, and i don't want to do that to himm.. so likee idkk
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I'm glad he is a good guy for you... best bet is to just say "If you do it a bit softer it feels better"... then he will get the idea, honey...
It seems like he wants you to have enjoyment too, so don't be afraid to tell him what works for you!
You don't have to be negative... be positive.. tell him what you DO like! I am sure he wants to know! Guys like you to be enjoying yourself too!
Well, the good ones that are worth your time anyway.. ;)
Hope you ok
It seems like he wants you to have enjoyment too, so don't be afraid to tell him what works for you!
You don't have to be negative... be positive.. tell him what you DO like! I am sure he wants to know! Guys like you to be enjoying yourself too!
Well, the good ones that are worth your time anyway.. ;)
Hope you ok
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