tonight me and my girlfriend finally decided to have sex and while i was trying to get it in i realized that my penis isn't as hard as it used to be and it wasn't going in.. We tried everything but it just didn't get hard enough... Im really worried that this might be a serious problem. I masturbate like atleast one day in general.. Im a little over weight.. But never had this problem before. Why did it happen when i was trying to have sex for the first time? Please someone help me. Thanks.
Hey, question. Did you use a condom? If so, and this was your first time it's normal because of 2 reasons. Anxiety from wanting it to go perfect and it isn't so you get disappointed and angry with yourself as well as some loss of feeling with condoms as you do have to get used to wearing a condom to learn how to keep yourself stimulated.
no i did not use a condom... I didn't anticipate that we would be doing that.
It's just the anxiety of trying to get it right then. It's normal and it'll keep getting easier.
Liz is telling you like it is.
There's a saying that we don't have enough blood to run both heads. You were too busy thinking with the big one.