So im ashamed to admit- im 21- a girl- and sexually active- but ive never masturbated... ive tried =x but like it doesnt seem the same as actually doing the deed- am i doomed to be a non masturbater? any advise?
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Hi, It is never to late to masturbate =). i have gathers a few previous responses on masturbating techniques which i believe you should consider.
Begin Licking your finger and get it nice and wet and then stroke your clit, rub it fast and then slow down varying the speeds, you can touch your breasts and squeeze your nipples while you do that, and insert a couple of fingers into your vagina and find your g spot. That always feels good. If you hold your breath prior to orgasming... depriving yourself of oxygen sometimes it heightens the orgasm itself. I know it sounds strange and it may not work for everyone but for some it does.
Also you can also lay in the bath and let the water from the shower stream down over your clit.
Another way is to sit on the right side of a chair and have one leg on the chair and one leg off, then push ure body weight onto ure vagina to the edge of the chair. (i no all of this sounds weird but it works! trust me) then kind of wiggle 4 about 5mins n u will be in bliss!it totally works.
Another way is to use a shampoo bottle. It has ridges on the sides, and I just lay down in the tub, and rub the ridges on my clite for a while, when I feel like I'm getting close to a climax, I push down harder, and rubs it up and down fsater. It works like a charm!
If you also have a eletric tooth brush begin to rub your clit with your fingers when you are wet insert the vibrating tooth brush inside you, stroking it in and out.
There are lots of different ways to masturbate - you just have to try different things and find the one that feels the best to your body. Good luck and ENJOY.
Begin Licking your finger and get it nice and wet and then stroke your clit, rub it fast and then slow down varying the speeds, you can touch your breasts and squeeze your nipples while you do that, and insert a couple of fingers into your vagina and find your g spot. That always feels good. If you hold your breath prior to orgasming... depriving yourself of oxygen sometimes it heightens the orgasm itself. I know it sounds strange and it may not work for everyone but for some it does.
Also you can also lay in the bath and let the water from the shower stream down over your clit.
Another way is to sit on the right side of a chair and have one leg on the chair and one leg off, then push ure body weight onto ure vagina to the edge of the chair. (i no all of this sounds weird but it works! trust me) then kind of wiggle 4 about 5mins n u will be in bliss!it totally works.
Another way is to use a shampoo bottle. It has ridges on the sides, and I just lay down in the tub, and rub the ridges on my clite for a while, when I feel like I'm getting close to a climax, I push down harder, and rubs it up and down fsater. It works like a charm!
If you also have a eletric tooth brush begin to rub your clit with your fingers when you are wet insert the vibrating tooth brush inside you, stroking it in and out.
There are lots of different ways to masturbate - you just have to try different things and find the one that feels the best to your body. Good luck and ENJOY.
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so im 17, sexually active, but i have never masturbated...i am convinced that it will have affect on my sex life...i was wondering if anyone could prove this or prove me wrong...i just want the facts
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