I'm 23 married trying to get pregnant for 2 years no luck, I am getting very devastated, I know it isn't my husband because he has a son from a previous relationship. I don't know if its stress from the parents and my husband on trying to conceive or if it is because of my cysts. I tried to see a fertility specialist but my husband is in the military and he just left for deployment and they need the both of us present. Is there a way were I can see a specialist without him being present. I just want to see what is the cause of me being infertile. :'( :'( Please someone answer me that will be greatly appreciated.