Hi. My husband and I have been married for 3.5 years now. We have been trying to conceive for 3 of them. I have really irregular cycles, some last for a few months while others a few days. Is there something wrong with me? Could my irregularity be the cause for us not having conceived yet? This is putting a strain on my husbands and my relationship because we both want to have a child to hold and love as our own. We would go see a fertility specialist but our insurance doesnt cover those kind of visits. I am scared. I want to be able to produce an offspring with my husband, but what if I cant. Adoption is out of the question  because as much as I am ok with it my husband just can not see raising anothers child as our own and yet it not really having been ours. WHat can I do????? I dont want to upset him anymore by not knowing what the problem is. Does anyone have any advice? Has anyone been through anything like this if so please how did you get through it?