50 and pregnant and embarresd

Don't let someone else choose for you, choose yourself. If you do not think you can give birth to a baby, do something about it. But if you think you will be able to do it, then you should give birth the baby! I'm inexperienced age-wise with these sort of things, but all I have to say is it is definitely your choice. I hope this helped!

I am 51 and would love to be pregnant. It is totally possible. However. My family would freak out, for sure. But they freak out for how long??? a few months maybe? I have had that reaction over the course of my life and have come to realize that people DO get over it. And it is still ok to say... hey, I'm struggling with it. But it's also good to surround yourself with at least one supportive person. The medical side.... science is different these days and there's a lot of help out there. I had a high risk pregnancy at 42... twins, #8 and #9.... so I was "old" and "had a lot of kids" and "had twins" but it worked out at full term and without drugs and vaginal. Recovery was a lot longer, but ok. So... even eight years later for you, I think it would work out. You have to have continuous support IMHO.

It is a life.