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A fork in the road !

By alymor303270 | 1 post, last post
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alymor303270

I'm 22 and 3 wks pregnant from my ex boyfriend. I though the right thing to do was to keep te baby , because it's what we both always wanted in the past. However , around the time we conceived , I found out he was cheating on me. Just like that , three years with my way friend down the drain. He left me for her, for a fling. He knows about the pregnancy , but still doesn't want to try to make things right or keep the baby. I know he's trying to manipulate me into having an abortion, however I am still in a pickle, I just don't know what to do. I suffer from depression , and can't imagine how I can possibly attempt to do this on my own.

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userK245845

Hi, 

I can only imagine how you feel. Here is my opinion. 

Yes, life can be cruel sometimes. Its just the way it is. Some have it easier , some have it worse. From my point view you should keep this child. I am not going to go all about if its a murder or not. I just think that having a baby might seem scarier than it actually is. The only thing your child needs is your unconditional love. 

There are many , many people in this world who can't have a baby. They would give anything for one. So in my opinion i think you should deliver this baby no matter what. In the end , if you can't manage it, you can always put it up for adoption. 

You say you suffer from depression. If you abort , you will always wonder whether you have made the right decision and what would your child look like. But , if you give birth, you will feel much happier and better. Just think about holding a little person in your hand. And its all yours.

What about your parents, family? Do you have them around? Any siblings or so? 

Hope this helps.

K

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