Hi, Well my symptoms started a month ago (feb) with me feeling very tired,face got spotty(usually only get spots a day before a cycle not weeks before specially this big period spot ) and i'm always hungry but i thought nothing of it due to being a mother of four very active kids. During that same month (feb) i got very dizzy faint and my eyesight went blurry( again i thought nothing of it). This month i was 6 days late which got me thinking "could i be pregnant" . I decided to take 2 pregnancy tests both coming out negative and started bleeding 2 days after my neg hpt having a very weird period . I started the fri night very light (thought it was due to me just starting) sat morn in my bath i stood up and felt a gush ( 2 small clots) sat night i stopped, sun started again but very light up till mon. Since than no more blood. My issue now is i never have short periods, mines usually lasts for 6-7 days very heavy too no pains.

Now a week after my unusual period for the last 3 days i've been having cramps in the very lower left hand side of my belly(a sort of pressure/pushing/pulling). Since yesterday and today im having a lot of white milky discharge (no smell)  i'm also getting lower backpaine , I feel so sensitive near my pelvic area and its soft when i touch and im so bloated i look pregnant (at first i thought i was bloated due to that weird period but im still bloated).My cramps are not severe but i can certainly feel it (uncomfortable) I dnt get cramps with my period so why now

I have not told my partner due to me wanting to be certain and i dnt kno if i should go doctors or take another hpt or just wait till nxt month.I feel so silly because i have 4 children but with all 4 i found out when i was 2-3 months. I really am confused.

Please can someone give me some advice or just help me feel sane again lool :-)