boyfriend getting high

An addiction is a terrible thing to have, it isolates the addict and they will make all sorts of excuses for it, when he is yelling at you, he probably knows that you are right, and yelling is his only defence, because he doesnt want to admit that he has a problem

You have to think for yourself now, this is not your problem, you cant fix it for him, do you really want to be in a relationship with someone like this.

There are many people out there in the world, that can make you happy. You dont need to take on his problems, unless he asks for your help.

I suggest leave him alone, and ge out with your friends and have fun

From my point of you, there are many things to consider here. How long have you been together? How long he has been doing it? What does he take-marijuana or something else? How old you both are? Is your relationship going somewhere? What do you want from him and your relationship? What are you getting from this relationship? What are you not getting from the relationship? Is this what you are getting worth more than what you are not getting, etc…..?
Once you put all the facts on the paper and consider things through, you may have a clearer picture and it may be easier to decide what to do next.
Every boy has a marijuana period. Some take it occasionally with friends, some take it regularly…..the question is how much it is interfering with his daily activities, if he’s neglecting you, if his character changes and things like that.
After some time, they just stop. You may not be ok with smoking weed but sorry to say it is your problem (and I can understand in a way) and you have to decide what you are going to do about it. Leave him or not. Going around nagging won’t do you any good, believe me and it certainly won’t make him stop.
If he’s getting high on some other drug, then ……it is another, and more serious story.

get a new boyfriend. yours sucks.

the only thing i can say is that if he considers the drug over you tht u should give him a reality check dump him and tell him the exact reason why and let that stew in his head for a few days and if he cares about you and how u feel he will make the right decison and if not ur better off wit out him anyways ant this is comin from a guy who soon to be wife did this to me and it really puts thing into prospettive when u lose somethin u treasure the most and when u know the reason was over some stupid drug

One time my boyfriend got high, he yelled at me over the phone and I told him to either stop getting high or leave me alone. He didn't do either. So he came to my house. And yelled at me some more when I tryed toshut the door he grabbed it opened it and slaped my, my guess he was high then too. But you should get out of wut you in now before that has a chance of happaning to you.

And for the record I'm happier now then when I was with him. :-D

I understand this thread is old news. After you have exhausted your ability to express your concern, there is nothing left to do but leave him. If you stay you'll only be hurting yourself. While they will not admit it, a pot head's ( a chronic smoker that has been smoking for a long time) pot is the dearest thing to them other than food and shelter. The only way to put things into perspective for him is to follow through on your threat to leave him.