So I have this boyfriend of 2 months, and i truely do care about him. The only problem though, is he is bi-polar and has attempted suicide 3 times, each unsuccessful. He has recently been caught stealing from un-locked cars and garages, and with marijuana-possession, and is now detained in a juvenile youth center. I won't be able to see him for 20 days, but i'm leaving for college in august, and he'll still be in high school (he's the same age as me just a year behind in school). should i wait for him or do you think he's holding me back?